Oh, he isnt coming back. He called me on Thursday. We talked and there is no use. I asked if he missed me, and he said for the last week he has not thought about me or the cats, that he is not in love with me and does not love with me, and has completely moved on. AND, with that, ALL I have to say right now, despite what he says, or what anyone else thinks or says (here or in life), he has someone, and I firmly belive that. He had a "good" female friend he has known for a year or so now from work .. Well, Since October, he would mention "S this, or S did this, or S that" Im not going to go into the whole thing .. He spilled his guts to her about us in November or so, and supposedly she offered him advice and then he said she opened his eyes up and he was working on becoming a better husband for me (this was a week after my b-day, which was 12/11) ... The signs are there ... 99.9% of the time when someone tells you that, there is someone. I dont care what anyone says .. So, now, I am more *$#)# off and angry than anything .. I didnt cry last night, and maybe for a second tonight, but that was all.. I didnt think of him today. Its just too bad he wont work things out .. Plus, on Tuesday, I have the great luck of picking up the papers .. Supposedly, I have 20 days to pick them up, if I dont then I get served and then have to go to court or some BS about it. And, I also believe this chick (10 years older than him) has A LOT to do with it. The day he opened his mouth to her, is the day it started, I think. NOT once, have I ever shared my history with my husband to a guy.