I am really sorry to keep venting about money like this...its so petty compared to some of your problems poor chixyb and her foot, and Fawn with her mother and hissy's hubby....but I am just so mad i need to rage to someone.......
My roomate Jim is a complete jerk and I have had enough!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jim has been my friend for almost 7 years...but recently i have found my self wishing the worst upon him.....the three of us jim john (my b/f) and i lived in an apartment together before with 2 other roomates...one of those roomates basically went crazy and we feared for our lives so we got out....the three of us got this apartment almost a year ago......
Since we moved in jim had been working at a part time slum where he recieved just enough to pay rent and buy himself stupid plants and bonsai junk!!!!! Anyhoo he didnt pay bills he didnt buy food.....John was in school full time so i was basically supporting both of them on my resonable pay check....Jim always assured us as soon as he found a better job he would get us back........I eventually left my job because i found out the manager was stealing and her ex husband would always show up and threaten us....the only job i could find was a part time minimum wage job.....jim on the other hand found the job of his dreams watering stupid plants full time for like 17$ an hour.......john got his co-op and we figured that jim would get us back plus be able to take a bit more weight onto him till i got a better job.....well ya know what instead of doing that he maxed out two credit cards bought more stupid plant junk and decided he was going to move back home so he could deal with his financial issues..............just like that that selfish jerk decided he cant pay us back and that he will go home rent free bill free....every freeking thing free!!!!!!!!!
And leave all the bills here....(all in my name) to me and john...the cable has already been shut off....when it got shut off you know what he said to me..."what Bridget not paying your bills"...........AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Jim is a perpetual child...he was never taught to be a man...only a boy..his mother does his laundry...shell pay his rent...bought him a car...a cell phone....he came in last night with brand new sneakers that his mother bought him...I havent had anything new in years!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was talking to john about my credit card i was thinking i could get a loan from my dad or something...and jim says to me.."Oh you make fun of me for getting new shoes but you want daddy to pay of your credit cards"...AHHHHHHH thats not the point....my credit card is filled with bills and groceries...his cards are filled with plant products, going out to dinner with friends, video games....
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He always talks down on me and tells me about how cool his job is and how he bought this cool new gadget that I would never be able to think of buying....he says to me "John shouldnt have to support the two of you..you need to get your act together"...what me get my act together??? He owes us almost 2 thousand dollars and thats just bills.....we got groceries for him and everything...where as hed go get an expensive dinner and not even bring us home leftovers...instead he would brag about the great meal he had...JOHN AND I ARE LIVING OFF BANQUET FROZEN DINNERS, and hes eating out everynight!!!!
And now hes moving home with his mommy who will cook for him clean for him, and hes leaving us in a hole.....John and I have no other option but to get another apartment because with the cats (ecspecially 3 cats) we dont have any family options...................we are so worried about money all the time but hes out having the time of his life...I HATE HIM!!!!!
Why it got me so bad today was I was talking to john about the budget place i was suggested..I got up to get a glass of water..when i got back hes on MY computer looking at the site..I told him to get up and he says "Bridget dont be so selfish i am more in debt then you are...you guys are in debt because you wont get a real job"
I would tell you what john and i said to him next but i would have to bleep out the entire convorsation..........
I am thinking of bringing him to court....but what will that do....it would take months....the friendship is over that selfish jerk had sealed that deal
I know this is partially my fault i shouldnt have let him taking advatage of us go as long as it did...But he WAS my friend and I would do anything for a friend.......I sure learned my lesson, and now me and john are living in poverty, while that jerk is gonna live the good life with a mother that thinks the sun rises and sets behind around him
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Ok i feel better now thanx for listening i
all you guys!!!!!
My roomate Jim is a complete jerk and I have had enough!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jim has been my friend for almost 7 years...but recently i have found my self wishing the worst upon him.....the three of us jim john (my b/f) and i lived in an apartment together before with 2 other roomates...one of those roomates basically went crazy and we feared for our lives so we got out....the three of us got this apartment almost a year ago......
Since we moved in jim had been working at a part time slum where he recieved just enough to pay rent and buy himself stupid plants and bonsai junk!!!!! Anyhoo he didnt pay bills he didnt buy food.....John was in school full time so i was basically supporting both of them on my resonable pay check....Jim always assured us as soon as he found a better job he would get us back........I eventually left my job because i found out the manager was stealing and her ex husband would always show up and threaten us....the only job i could find was a part time minimum wage job.....jim on the other hand found the job of his dreams watering stupid plants full time for like 17$ an hour.......john got his co-op and we figured that jim would get us back plus be able to take a bit more weight onto him till i got a better job.....well ya know what instead of doing that he maxed out two credit cards bought more stupid plant junk and decided he was going to move back home so he could deal with his financial issues..............just like that that selfish jerk decided he cant pay us back and that he will go home rent free bill free....every freeking thing free!!!!!!!!!
Jim is a perpetual child...he was never taught to be a man...only a boy..his mother does his laundry...shell pay his rent...bought him a car...a cell phone....he came in last night with brand new sneakers that his mother bought him...I havent had anything new in years!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was talking to john about my credit card i was thinking i could get a loan from my dad or something...and jim says to me.."Oh you make fun of me for getting new shoes but you want daddy to pay of your credit cards"...AHHHHHHH thats not the point....my credit card is filled with bills and groceries...his cards are filled with plant products, going out to dinner with friends, video games....
He always talks down on me and tells me about how cool his job is and how he bought this cool new gadget that I would never be able to think of buying....he says to me "John shouldnt have to support the two of you..you need to get your act together"...what me get my act together??? He owes us almost 2 thousand dollars and thats just bills.....we got groceries for him and everything...where as hed go get an expensive dinner and not even bring us home leftovers...instead he would brag about the great meal he had...JOHN AND I ARE LIVING OFF BANQUET FROZEN DINNERS, and hes eating out everynight!!!!
And now hes moving home with his mommy who will cook for him clean for him, and hes leaving us in a hole.....John and I have no other option but to get another apartment because with the cats (ecspecially 3 cats) we dont have any family options...................we are so worried about money all the time but hes out having the time of his life...I HATE HIM!!!!!
Why it got me so bad today was I was talking to john about the budget place i was suggested..I got up to get a glass of water..when i got back hes on MY computer looking at the site..I told him to get up and he says "Bridget dont be so selfish i am more in debt then you are...you guys are in debt because you wont get a real job"
I would tell you what john and i said to him next but i would have to bleep out the entire convorsation..........
I am thinking of bringing him to court....but what will that do....it would take months....the friendship is over that selfish jerk had sealed that deal
I know this is partially my fault i shouldnt have let him taking advatage of us go as long as it did...But he WAS my friend and I would do anything for a friend.......I sure learned my lesson, and now me and john are living in poverty, while that jerk is gonna live the good life with a mother that thinks the sun rises and sets behind around him
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