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post #31 of 55
Just bumping this up to ask if there's any news Stormy?
post #32 of 55
Hey guys, Stormy/Diane's computer went out so she asked me to post this update on her sister's kids so people wouldn't be worried:

My stupid comptuer's router is broke...so no computer for the last few days and right when I really needed it too

I'm using my brother's computer right now and mine might not get fixed until after Christmas.

After much stress the kids are finally back here! But my sister had to go through so much to get them back. She got a court order for her ex to return the kids and he still refused. He lives in a small town with only one cop and the cop refused to follow the court order and wouldn't let my sister either see my niece or even talk to her. My sister made a call to the court and then went to the police station and the cop told her that if she went near her ex husbands house that she would be arrested! So the court must have put a warrant out for him because after she retuned with just my nephew my niece called my house to see if her mom was here because she wanted to come home.

On the drive home my sister told me my niece said that her father took her to the police station eariler and made her tell them she didn't want to come home and some other lies about why she didn't want to come home

Today she's at the court again trying to get a new restraning order against him for her house and my house.
post #33 of 55
[i]Sorry, I too dont have any advice for you as I dont know what to say. But, what I would say it's good that the cops have been involved as he clearly kidnapped the children. I wish you the best of luck with this and hope all is solved very soon.
post #34 of 55
Hmm damn, THe only advice i could give you is that if the father is acting that way then the court has to decide that the mother has full custody an the father has nothing.
post #35 of 55
I am so happy to hear the kids are home again, safe and sound!
post #36 of 55
Thread Starter 
My computer is finally fixed, got a new router put in today...finally!

Stefanie, thanks for posting the update for me.

Thanks everyone for your good thoughts and advice, it is very much appreciated!
post #37 of 55
It's good to know that the kids are back home safe and sound - and in time for Christmas too.


Have a great Christmas and Happy New Year
post #38 of 55
Thread Starter 
Update:

My sister has a court date on Friday to try and get the visitation stopped. The kids don't want to see their father anymore and I definately can't blame them with all that he has put them through.

I would really appreciate some vibes sent their way for a good outcome, they really deserve it!

Thanks!
post #39 of 55
No good advice here, but good luck with the bad situation and hope things ease between everyone.
-stevie
post #40 of 55
Quote:
Originally Posted by stormy
Update:

My sister has a court date on Friday to try and get the visitation stopped. The kids don't want to see their father anymore and I definately can't blame them with all that he has put them through.

I would really appreciate some vibes sent their way for a good outcome, they really deserve it!

Thanks!
If the court won't stop the visitation, then remind your sister to push for supervised visitation. He has threatened to injure the children many times and threatened to kidnap them. Also, does the original court order allow him to take them out of state?? If not, he must visit them in NJ.
post #41 of 55
Sending (((((vibes)))))) Diane. Keep us posted.
post #42 of 55
Thread Starter 
YAY! My niece's and nephew's father's visitation is suspended! And next Friday the judge wants to interview the kids to see what they want. So hopefully next week this mess will all be over!
post #43 of 55
Thread Starter 
The court date was changed from last friday to today.
I'll be going too becuse my niece is very nervous and she needs alot of support if her father shows up (I'm strongly hoping he doesn't) I'll let you know what happens.
post #44 of 55
Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
post #45 of 55
Quote:
Originally Posted by stormy
Thanks everyone.

My sister called this morning and what she didn't tell us last night was that her ex called her and said they were all in the car and he was going to crash it and kill everyone.
Then he called back later to say that he was going to keep my neice, he's focusing on my niece because he knows he doesn't have much of a chance for my nephew to want to live with him.

Then after that my nephew called my sister begging her to please come and get him, which is something he's never done before.

my sister has called the police this morning and they are checking to see if a restraining order she previously had is still good and that should help legally.
She's still waiting on a call back from them.

My stomach is just in knots with worry. I hate just waiting around for news.
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If she told the police about the car thing, then there is no reason they aren't up there taking the kids and arresting him. That is very serious. My father once threatened to shoot me and himself, and within 20 minutes, my mother and the police were there, escorting him out.
post #46 of 55
LAzy me didn't read the whole thread... I'm glad to hear things worked out okay. I'm sending good vibes your way for the court date.
post #47 of 55
Lots of good wishes coming going your sisters way!!!
post #48 of 55
My fingers are crossed for them and my thoughts are with you all right now. Your nephew and niece just don't need all this stress in their young lives.

I hope the hearing goes well.
post #49 of 55
Thread Starter 
Well, the judge said my nephew was old enough to not have to go if he don't want to. But my niece still has to go one weekend a month. The poor girl looked like she wanted to cry all of the way home.

After all he put those kids through I don't know why my niece still has to see him. They both told the judge they didn't want to see him anymore. My niece is 13 and I heard that was the age where they were able to decide what they wanted to do.

So she has to go there this weekend and I am so afraid that he will not bring her back (he has to pick her up and bring her back) and we will have to go through the same horror we had to go through in December.

I am just so very disappointed and afraid.
post #50 of 55
Your family remains in my prayers, Diane.
post #51 of 55
Oh Diane I'm so sorry she still has to go with him I can't belive the juge said she has to he must have rocks in his head I hope it all works out ok
post #52 of 55
I'm thinking of you and your family - I hope it will be better than you fear. At least now the courts have ruled and you will have some redress if things go wrong. But it is sad your niece has to go through all that.
post #53 of 55
Thread Starter 
Thanks Stephanie, Jaspers Mummy and Jenny.
I'm going to be very nervous all weekend. The thing that gets me is that he admitted to the judge he did all of those things and yet she still is making my niece go. How screwed up is that?
post #54 of 55
Thread Starter 
Relief!!!! My niece's father isn't picking her up this weekend because he says he has to go into the hospital for test!

Of course I don't beleive there's anything wrong with him. Over the years he's claimed to have many things wrong with him that didn't exist, like brain tumors, twisted up intestines...ect. Of which he never had any surgies for and doesn't have them anymore.
post #55 of 55
Oh poor girl - I don't see why there should be a difference between your nephew and niece's views - it doesn't seem fair does it? I hope it goes alright
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