Wow--I feel the love here!
Things like Elizabeth and Eric did make the world a better place!!
Things like Elizabeth and Eric did make the world a better place!!
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I'm venting- only because there is no where else to go
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Hissy, I totally agree with what was said here. If Mike's condition still hasn't improved, and he's refusing to go back to the doctor, call an ambulance so he can be seen in the ER and a doctor can evaluate his condition and determine whether or not to admit him. If he still refuses to go after the ambulance arrives at your house, leave the room and let the attendents deal with him.Originally posted by turtlecat
As for Mike. If the infection is reeking, then there's a serious infection that may start to affect his organs if it is not monitored by a doctor in a facility sweetheartI hope he's willing to listen, and at least get admitted to have it seriously looked at.
I know it's stressful when someone is hospitalized, but it might be the best thing...
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We are now on our way to the hospital, please wish us well- His inability to want to go to the doctor stems on only one fact, no medical insurance. I told him we would cover it somehow- and that funerals are a lot more expensive!
Oh goodness Mary Anne. Please know that you are both in my thoughts, and I'm hoping for the best...
Oh Hissy...sending along all the positive energy I can muster & lighting a candle.
Please know you can call just to talk (and I will just listen) if you need to, you have my toll-free number.
Please know you can call just to talk (and I will just listen) if you need to, you have my toll-free number.
MA, my thoughts and prayers are with you and Mike.Originally Posted by hissy
We are now on our way to the hospital, please wish us well- His inability to want to go to the doctor stems on only one fact, no medical insurance. I told him we would cover it somehow- and that funerals are a lot more expensive!
My thoughts are with you Mary Anne - I hope everything turns out ok. It's good that Mike is getting medical help - I wish you both well
Extra powerful vibes and prayers are on the way to you both!!! I am truely hoping there will be a good ending to all of this!
The most careful and loving attention isn't necessarily sufficient -- is often quite sufficient to burn the care giver out (been there, done that). I'm glad he's come to his senses and is going to get the attention he needs. And I hope it pays off with a quick turnaround. While it may be a longish haul back to health, if you can see some response soon, that will help.
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Just got back and it was worth the horrible fight we had for me to get him in there.
He has picked up an anaerobic infection gram ve bacilli. They have put more packing into the wound, given him stronger antibioitics and pain killers. His blood sugar was elevated, but the doc said that was from the pain. I did ask if he needed to go in the hospital, but the doctor said he didn't believe that was warranted, especially since I managed to get him in to the doctor twice within one week. They want to see him again in two days. Now, I need to go make plans to rob a bank to pay for the drugs! YIKES! Why can't they just make prescription tax-deductable? Wouldn't that work for everyone concerned?
Speaking of concerned, thank you all for yours. Please know that I am doing the best I can, but I want a refund on a stubborn husband- anyone know what department I go to for that?
Speaking of concerned, thank you all for yours. Please know that I am doing the best I can, but I want a refund on a stubborn husband- anyone know what department I go to for that?
MA - you and Mike are still in my thoughts.
Best of luck at the docs in two days. and that infection sounds nasty
I'm glad to see an update, and glad he didn't need to be hospitalized. I hope you both can some rest tonight.
Wow just reading and catching up on what has been going on. Elizabeth and Eric are
to do that. Thanks you too
Glad to hear that Mike quit being so stubborn and went to get that wound checked. Now for peace of mind for you both get some rest and know that we are all here pulling for you guys.
Glad to hear that Mike quit being so stubborn and went to get that wound checked. Now for peace of mind for you both get some rest and know that we are all here pulling for you guys.
Mary Anne, I don't know the $$ amount, but I do know that if you spend a certain % of your income on out of pocket medical expenses it can be deducted from your taxes. I think it's something like 7%?? I could be wrong on the number, but I do know that you can do it. My co-worker was amazed that she could do it last year, and shared that little tip with me.Originally Posted by hissy
Just got back and it was worth the horrible fight we had for me to get him in there.He has picked up an anaerobic infection gram ve bacilli. They have put more packing into the wound, given him stronger antibioitics and pain killers. His blood sugar was elevated, but the doc said that was from the pain. I did ask if he needed to go in the hospital, but the doctor said he didn't believe that was warranted, especially since I managed to get him in to the doctor twice within one week. They want to see him again in two days. Now, I need to go make plans to rob a bank to pay for the drugs! YIKES! Why can't they just make prescription tax-deductable? Wouldn't that work for everyone concerned?
Speaking of concerned, thank you all for yours. Please know that I am doing the best I can, but I want a refund on a stubborn husband- anyone know what department I go to for that?
Oh MA! Hang in there!
You are both in my prayers!
I'm also glad you saw a doctor Phew.. that's a nasty infective, honey
Lots of love to you and Mike-Tanke care, honey bear!
I just caught up on this myself and am relieved that you got Mike back to a doctor. I don't know why they sell prescriptions at such a high cost as it is. I know its to pay for production, but some of the prices are just unreal. Have you asked the dr if they have any samples of some of this to cut down the amount you have to have filled at a pharmacy?
As far as a refund is concerned, check to see if there is a catagory for stubborn husbands on ebay--all sales final.
Take care of yourself lady!
As far as a refund is concerned, check to see if there is a catagory for stubborn husbands on ebay--all sales final.
Take care of yourself lady!
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Mary Anne, I don't know the $$ amount, but I do know that if you spend a certain % of your income on out of pocket medical expenses it can be deducted from your taxes. I think it's something like 7%?? I could be wrong on the number, but I do know that you can do it. My co-worker was amazed that she could do it last year, and shared that little tip with me.
Mary Anne, is Mike's doctor aware that you don't have prescription coverage? It never hurts to ask for samples, they get tons of them. Sometimes they can even arrange with the salesperson for extra. Of course, I tell you this now, after the fact. Becky
