Cindy years ago, I went the big guilt trip, I even had a funeral director come to the house and talk about coffins and funerals. It scared him about 2 weeks then he went back to his way of living, which is thinking nothing is wrong with him-
His mom was the type if he didn't eat all his food, she would heap more on his plate and force feed him the entire meal!!
I will spare you the other details of what she did to him in regards to food, but it would make you hurl. I firmly believe that she was mentally ill to some extent and never sought help for it, instead she screwed up all three of her kids. He has been fighting weight all his life. I will never forget right after we were married, we were sitting on the couch talking and he asked me if i was hungry? It was about 9:00 p.m. I told him no. He went into the kitchen got half a head of cabbage, 4 carrots, a turnip, a bunch of radishes and some cherry tomatoes. He put all this in a large tupperware bowl and came and sat down! I asked him :censor::censor::censor: he was doing? He said he was having a snack! I pulled it all away from him and told him that it wasn't a snack, it was chef's salad for four! Then I went in and fixed him 4 carrot sticks and 3 radishes. He was not a happy camper-