I'm new here (obviously) and have done some searching around to see if there are any threads covering my specific problem, but I've found none.
Here's the situation:
My girlfriend's cat cries like crazy all night after being away somewhere else. This was never a problem in the past, even when my girlfriend lived a few hours from her parent's place and brought the cat back and forth frequently.
Over the last few months, whenever she brings the cat to her parent's house (only minutes away) the night she returns home, the cat cries/howls all night, keeping her awake. The cat has been back and forth between my girlfriend's place and her parent's place with no problems for quite some time. It's only lately that this has sprung up.
The cat can be over there for a few days, or simply a few hours with the same results each time. She spends the night literally climbing the walls mostly in the corners and crying all night. If the cat comes home in the afternoon, or early evening, she's fine, only crying maybe one time if at all. Once my girlfriend goes to bed however, the cat goes crazy. This does not occur for multiple nights, it only happens the first night she's returned home.
I don't think the cat is confused with her surroundings, as she beelines for her food when she arrives at my girlfriend's parent's place, and when she comes back home as well. She never seems to hunt around for her food, water, or litterbox, so I don't think she's hungry over night nor unable to find her litter. She comes home and curls up in her favorite places without incident, but again, once my girlfriend goes to bed, the crying ensues.
My girlfriend leaves the light on for the cat every night, so I know it can't be the dark, and I am certain she hasn't "lost" my girlfriend either, as she occasionally comes into her bedroom, stares at my girlfriend in bed, and cries directly at her as well. My girlfriend will talk to the cat so the cat knows she is there, but the cat starts crying again ten minutes later.
If you made it through the background info, great. I'm sorry to be so long winded, but I wanted to clear up any small details before asking for advice, so everything about the situation was clear.
I know that the problem revolves around leaving her apartment then returning home. My question is, why has this started only recently? Why does she wait until everyone is asleep to start crying, why not before? What's with the climbing the walls? Is there anything that can be done to remedy this? It's maddening!
Thanks in advance!
Here's the situation:
My girlfriend's cat cries like crazy all night after being away somewhere else. This was never a problem in the past, even when my girlfriend lived a few hours from her parent's place and brought the cat back and forth frequently.
Over the last few months, whenever she brings the cat to her parent's house (only minutes away) the night she returns home, the cat cries/howls all night, keeping her awake. The cat has been back and forth between my girlfriend's place and her parent's place with no problems for quite some time. It's only lately that this has sprung up.
The cat can be over there for a few days, or simply a few hours with the same results each time. She spends the night literally climbing the walls mostly in the corners and crying all night. If the cat comes home in the afternoon, or early evening, she's fine, only crying maybe one time if at all. Once my girlfriend goes to bed however, the cat goes crazy. This does not occur for multiple nights, it only happens the first night she's returned home.
I don't think the cat is confused with her surroundings, as she beelines for her food when she arrives at my girlfriend's parent's place, and when she comes back home as well. She never seems to hunt around for her food, water, or litterbox, so I don't think she's hungry over night nor unable to find her litter. She comes home and curls up in her favorite places without incident, but again, once my girlfriend goes to bed, the crying ensues.
My girlfriend leaves the light on for the cat every night, so I know it can't be the dark, and I am certain she hasn't "lost" my girlfriend either, as she occasionally comes into her bedroom, stares at my girlfriend in bed, and cries directly at her as well. My girlfriend will talk to the cat so the cat knows she is there, but the cat starts crying again ten minutes later.
If you made it through the background info, great. I'm sorry to be so long winded, but I wanted to clear up any small details before asking for advice, so everything about the situation was clear.
I know that the problem revolves around leaving her apartment then returning home. My question is, why has this started only recently? Why does she wait until everyone is asleep to start crying, why not before? What's with the climbing the walls? Is there anything that can be done to remedy this? It's maddening!
Thanks in advance!