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kittylover4ever

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My brother contacted me about his father in law.

This is an excerpt from his letter to me:

Susie,

Just an update on Jill's dad's health. He's gone downhill quickly. Sunday night, they had to begin constant suction of his lungs.

This morning at 1:15am, we got a call from Judy (Jill's sister) who said the nursing home was sending him to Trumbull. He couldn't breathe very well.

When we got to the hospital this morning around 2:00am, the ER doctor told us he had only 30 minutes left. Looked and sounded terrible and has aspiration pneumonia.

During the period between 2:30am and 4:00am, he actually stopped breathing twice for about 60 seconds each time. When we would go to notify a nurse, he'd take a big breath and start shallow breathing again.

It's just a matter of time now. His BP is slowing but steadily declining, was 50/30 last time I knew, but his heart still had good rythym. Respiration very shallow.

I'll let you know how things happen.
Love, Tom


It's all very sad......my sister in law's dad is in his 80's, and has been in a nursing home for the past 4 years. Jill has had to watch him deteriorate, and now this.......we all know his time is near, but if we could all just pray that it's an easy passing, if there is such a thing...........
 

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Dear Susie, My prayers thoughts with you and special for your family.... How difficult time, Life and Death, please God Give us more faith.
 

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I'm thinking of your sil, and her dad, susie :/ but if the worst happens, at least he'll be comfortable
 

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Prayers are on the way. I hope your sister-in-law's dad will be able to pass easily, and be surrounded by those who love him.
 
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Thanks everyone....... I will pass this along......
 

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Susie,

He is in my prayers. I pray the Lord will give him a gentle passing...
 
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Gosh, I kind of hope it doesn't happen today....I just found out that it is their 70th wedding anniversary today.....the mother is crushed enough as it is.....
 

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Your SIL and her father will be in my prayers, I pray the Lord will take him Home in the most gentle of ways~
 

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Best of best board magic, Susie. I so hope he has a peaceful passing -- and that it's not today. Thoughts and prayers for your sister-in-law and her dad, and all the family.
 

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Oh dear
I will add on to my prayers for him that he gets this very special day to spend with his wife
 

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aww 70th anniversary????
i thought he was 80? or did i read wrong??
I hope he recovers from it!!

I think i might go to the elderlyhouse and see if they will adopt me as a granddaughter
 
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Your right Fwan, I did say that.....I checked with my brother, and I had it wrong. I knew he was older, but I guess he is 92. So is her mother.
 

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I feel so sad when I see news like this at Christmastime. You brother and SIL will be in my thoughts.
 

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70 years that is so wonderful.
I would like to last that long.
I wish you all the best with him, although days are short.
 
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