hi, i'm new to the forum and have quite a problem! i've always had burmese kitties and think they are wonderful. several months ago, my beloved male passed away. after some time of my little girl kit (11 years old) being very lonely, i adopted an 18 month bombay girl and the two hit it off great after just about a week of separation and introduction. well, of course, i couldn't leave well enough alone, and got a bombay boy (3 years) from the same breeder. i'm doing the same separation/introduction procedure, but.... problems!!! the boy is a pretty large cat. and the 11 y/o burmese is small. on the two occasions i have tried to have them 'see' each other, total aggression on the boy's part (he actually broke free from me and chased her into hiding). she is now terrified of him, even tho i keep them separate all the time. i do move them back and forth (from one separation room to the other) to try and get them used to each other scents. it is very difficult always moving them and making sure everyone has clean litterboxes, food, water, toys, attention, etc. but i'll do whatever it takes! any advice would be greatly appreciated! they are all lovely, sweet kitties.... i just don't understand how to get this big boy to be okay with my little princess. he is fine with the young (18 month old bombay girl)... help, please!!!!
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12/8/04 at 9:21am