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We lost our baby I got Preeclampsia at 25.5 weeks and was admitted to the hospital, they transfered me to our local hospital that could handle babies born that young (our lady of lourdes in camden NJ). I lasted another week at the hospital but had to have a c-section on thanksgiving at 26.5 weeks because my platlet count was dropping and my blood presure was rising, they were worried my blood wouldn't clot. The baby was doing really well, she was breathing on her own and I got to hear her cry when she was born, but she started to have bleeding in her brain two days after she was born. I'm so heart broken. I have been staying at my parents house since I was released from the hospital. Preeclampsia has so many unknowns and I don't know if I will be able to carry a baby full term. I just wanted to let you guys know.
post #2 of 67
Oh, Princess Purr. I'm so so sorry. That's devastating. Please know that I am praying for you.
post #3 of 67
Val, I remember your posts about how much you wanted to have a baby, and I am so extremely sorry that this terrible tragedy has occurred. I'm sending super powerful prayers to you, your husband and the entire family to help you all find comfort and strength during this very difficult time.
post #4 of 67
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. During my career, I cared for many patients pre-term/delivery and post-delivery with pre-eclampsia, it can be hard to get under control sometimes.
post #5 of 67
Oh no! I am so sorry, this must be so hard for you. You're in my prayers...
post #6 of 67
OMG, I had pre-eclampsia too, but I was able to carry to 34 weeks. I wish there was something I could do for you. PM me if you need to talk. Please be assured that our hearts and thoughts are with you.
post #7 of 67
I am truly very, very sorry! I don't know what to say that will ease your pain, but you are in my thoughts and prayers.
post #8 of 67
Oh Val, I am so sorry to hear this. Our hearts are with you....
post #9 of 67
Princess Purr, I keep thinking about you and I really am just so sorry. I know I can't imagine the pain you're going through, right now, but I am thinking about you and praying for you and your family. Here are a lot of hugs from me and from everyone else here at TCS:

post #10 of 67

If you want to talk to someone who has been there, you can PM me-

I am so incredibly sorry. I know how badly you both wanted this to work-
post #11 of 67
I am extremely sorry to hear about this, I understand how hard this must be for you, although I do not have a child yet. This isn't quite the same, but we had a friend who suffers from Grand Mal seizures, they had a baby girl and at 4 years old she was diagnosed with brain cancer and later died. It has been about 4 years since then and they just had a new baby boy, amazingly the doctor said she could never have a baby again because of the seizures. Although this must be intensly hard for you, we are all here for you and things will get easier with time, but you will never forget.
post #12 of 67
I'm so sorry I really don't know what else to say sorry but if you need someone to off load on pm me any time ok I really am sorry.
post #13 of 67
I'm so very sorry for your loss. You are always in my thoughts..
post #14 of 67
I'm so sorry to hear about your little daughter. Prayers and love to your family in this tough tough time.
post #15 of 67
I'm so sorry for your loss, you and your daughter will be in my prayes.
post #16 of 67
You are in my thoughts and prayers at this so difficult time~
I'm so sorry~
post #17 of 67
I am so so so very sorry to hear this! I will light a candle for your little babygirl and you and your family.
I wish I could do something for you, that would make you feel better, or put a little smile on your face. I send you my best and biggest hug.
If you want to talk, please dont hesitate.
post #18 of 67
Val, I'm so sorry to hear about the baby.
post #19 of 67
So sorry to hear your bad news. Prayers to you and yours.
post #20 of 67
Val.... I am very sorry to hear of this.... You and Rich and family will be in my thoughts and prayers sweetie .
post #21 of 67
Val, we are deeply, deeply sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how numb and dark you feel. I wish words could help. We lit a candle tonight for you, right here by the computer.
Our prayers are with you,
Elizabeth, Eric, and Sasha
post #22 of 67
everyone has already said so much - but know how sorry I am for you & your husband - your both in our thoughts during this difficult time we are all here for you should you need to talk
post #23 of 67
Oh, I am so, so sad for you and your family... I know there are never any perfect words to say, to take pain away, but just know that a LOT of people are thinking and praying for you...... I wish you strength and comfort in your pain.
post #24 of 67
I'm soooo sorry, that is sooo heartbreaking. I really don't know what to say, but I am very sorry.
post #25 of 67
Oh, no Val!
My heart goes out to you.
post #26 of 67
I'm so sorry.

Please accept our deepest sympathies to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.
post #27 of 67
I am so sorry to hear this sad news. My heart breaks for you. Many for you.
post #28 of 67
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, more than words can say. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
post #29 of 67
There are never adequate words, just know I am so sorry for your loss -- prayers for you and yours in this difficult time
post #30 of 67
I am so very sorry for your loss. ((((((( Val and family)))))))

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