I know this doesn't even compare to what others are going through right now, so let's not even get into that! But I still feel like complaining a bit, if you'll indulge me.
I haven't seen much of my husband in the last two weeks, and my kids have seen even less of him. I actually feel like a single mother (except I get to stay at home and not work!). Doug's company has a branch in NY just a few blocks from the disaster, so when they closed, his department at work had to do all of theirs too. So that week we didn't see him much. Plus I was deathly sick with strep, so when he was home, I was not able to talk to him. Then this last week, his company contracted that really bad computer virus. He's an IT manager, so he got to spend countless hours trying to get everyone back online. Plus, he ALWAYS goes to the gym after work, so that gets him home even later. Today he's at a power lifting competition so we won't see him again. I hope he does well, but I sure do miss him!
Plus, to top off this great week, my daughter's friend (he's almost 7) told her all about what happened in NY. She's only 4 (five next week) so we had just told her there was an accident and she didn't know people died. Well, Parker told her all the details, about both planes, buildings falling, people buring. My poor girl. She sobbed and sobbed. Little kids really take this to heart. She was so sad for the people that died and that were scared. I had to assure her time and again that no children were in the buildings when they fell. I didn't tell her about the children on the planes. Then she wanted to know why this happened. Since we're Christian, I told her that these bad men didn't love Jesus so they were able to do these terrible things. She said that they didn't have Jesus in their heart. She said "actually, they just have the devil in their heart." I thought that was about as accurate a reason as we can get. The faith of children is just amazing!
I haven't seen much of my husband in the last two weeks, and my kids have seen even less of him. I actually feel like a single mother (except I get to stay at home and not work!). Doug's company has a branch in NY just a few blocks from the disaster, so when they closed, his department at work had to do all of theirs too. So that week we didn't see him much. Plus I was deathly sick with strep, so when he was home, I was not able to talk to him. Then this last week, his company contracted that really bad computer virus. He's an IT manager, so he got to spend countless hours trying to get everyone back online. Plus, he ALWAYS goes to the gym after work, so that gets him home even later. Today he's at a power lifting competition so we won't see him again. I hope he does well, but I sure do miss him!
Plus, to top off this great week, my daughter's friend (he's almost 7) told her all about what happened in NY. She's only 4 (five next week) so we had just told her there was an accident and she didn't know people died. Well, Parker told her all the details, about both planes, buildings falling, people buring. My poor girl. She sobbed and sobbed. Little kids really take this to heart. She was so sad for the people that died and that were scared. I had to assure her time and again that no children were in the buildings when they fell. I didn't tell her about the children on the planes. Then she wanted to know why this happened. Since we're Christian, I told her that these bad men didn't love Jesus so they were able to do these terrible things. She said that they didn't have Jesus in their heart. She said "actually, they just have the devil in their heart." I thought that was about as accurate a reason as we can get. The faith of children is just amazing!