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post #31 of 113
Cindy and Charlie, through this hard time, you will be in my thoughts and prayers, keep strong ~
post #32 of 113
Thinking of you both with all my love
post #33 of 113
Cindy you are all still in my thoughts at this sad time Sending you in the hope that it wil give you all some comfort
post #34 of 113
Cindy, oh please know that through his awful time, you have the love and support of all of us here.............
post #35 of 113

I'm afraid I lost you mailing address with the crash.

Please know that you and Charlie are in my prayers. It's hard to say goodbye at anytime of the year, but holidays are especially tough. Sending you lots of and prayers for you family.
post #36 of 113
I pray that she has a swift and pain free passing. You are all in my prayers!
post #37 of 113
Dear Cindy,

Just to let you know that you are in my thoughts at this time. I pray for a peaceful end for your mother-in-law, it will mean a lot to her to know that your love will go with her. May the angels smile on her.
post #38 of 113
Thread Starter 
Dear Cindy and Charlie, may she be escorted to heaven by the angels. And I pray that the Lord hold you in His hands to comfort you in this sad time. If there is anything I can do Cindy, let me know. My love and prayers to you both.
post #39 of 113
Originally Posted by dawnofsierra
Cindy has just said that Charlie's Mom will not be with us much longer. She is requesting prayers and good thoughts that her MIL will have an easy passing.
I am so sorry, I will keep them all in my thoughts and prayers.
post #40 of 113
Good grief, now I'm sitting here bawling again, like I haven't done enough of that these past 24 hours. You guys rock! I'll never be able to express how much I love each and every one of you, and don't have the time right now to do it properly, but rest assured when all is said and done, I will! Now, for a bit of an update, MIL is still with us this morning, is pretty much alert and such, which honestly, we and the drs/nurses on attendance last night when they took her off are really surprised. We know that since her liver has failed, and her kidneys are slowly shutting down, it will not be long, so the best we can hope for is an easy passing. The good thing is, by her own testimony, she's ready spiritually to go, her kids are too, and she'll be reunited with my FIL who passed in 1997.........as Charlie said, its hard to lose her, but even harder to see her lying in a bed unable to do a darn thing for herself. He's having a harder time with this than with his dad, so do remember him too, 'cause its gonna be rough on him. That being updated, he's taking a two hour nap, I'm going to feed my kitties and rest for a few minutes before taking a shower (we've been up since 6 yesterday morning, and both smelling kinda yukky) so he can take one when he gets up, then make the hour's drive back to the hospital. I'll try to update
Stephanie when I can, usually my cell service for text messaging disappears when I need it the most!
post #41 of 113
Prayers and hugs to you and Charlie and the rest of the family. I used to work in a nursing home and I've seen similar to what you are describing happening with your MIL. It is wonderful that you and hubby are with her. I'm sure FIL is patiently waiting for her to join him so they can be together again. You are all in my prayers.
post #42 of 113
Cindy, this is no easy time. Your MIL is in my thoughts for a peaceful passing. I have the whole family in my thoughts.
post #43 of 113
My thoughts are with you. I was in your shoes just 2 years ago when my dear mom passed from liver cancer. She passed easily and readily and we were all there with her at the end. It's a very difficult time, but know that she goes to a better place and will watch over you and stay with you in spirit. I still feel my mom with me, especially at times when I'm doing something she would have loved to do.

Bless you both and be there for your husband as I'm sure you are.
post #44 of 113
post #45 of 113
Cindy, I know how difficult it is to watch someone go like this. I am so sorry. My prayers for your mil's peaceful passing, and for strength for you and your husband.

post #46 of 113
I'm sorry just never seems to be enough...
All of you are in my thoughts and prayers as you have been, now I can only say that I pray God takes her easily and she will joyfully reunite with her husband. Please let Charlie know that everyone here is thinking of him as well as you~
If there is anything at all, even the smallest thing, that I could do, please don't hesitate to ask~
post #47 of 113
Cindy bless your MIL heart for having the strength to accept it and i pray that all of you find the strength to cope with this
post #48 of 113
Love to both of you. I echo the others in my sentiments.
post #49 of 113
Originally Posted by hissy
Oh Cindy, when I read your last message to me, I feared for your final words. Please know that my thoughts and prayers rest with you and Charlie, and may the two of you retain a closeness, because now more than ever you need each other-
MA, I had to go back and look to see what I had said to you yesterday morning, I just could not remember! Thanks a lot, my friend.

As for us, I laid down too, and the two of us overslept the two hour alarm that he had set, so we're just now showering and changing to leave.

If anyone wants to text message me, just give Stephanie a buzz and ask her for my cell number.....I'd pm it to someone before I leave, but I never can remember it!!
post #50 of 113
Cindy and Charlie - Sending all our strength and kindest thoughts to you and Charlie's mum at this difficult time. We're thinking of you . I hope whatever will be, happens in the kindest, gentlest possible way.
post #51 of 113
Continuing prayers for all of you, Cindy and Charlie and family There are no adequate words, just know that we're all thinking of you, and praying that your MILs passing will be peaceful.
post #52 of 113
Cindy and Charlie, I am so sorry and my thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of the family. May Charlie's mom pass easily and peacefully, surrounded by those who love her.
post #53 of 113
Have just heard from Cindy. She and Charlie could really use our thoughts and prayers right now.
post #54 of 113
Originally Posted by dawnofsierra
Have just heard from Cindy. She and Charlie could really use our thoughts and prayers right now.
as always sending lots and lots of thoughts to you & Charlie
post #55 of 113
Cindy, I'm so sorry to hear the heartache you, Charlie, and your family are going thru. I am sure that your family and your faith are a source of strength for each other during this sad time. I hope your MIL's passing will be quick and painless as possible. *HUG*
post #56 of 113
Cindy.... You and Charlie and family are still in my thoughts and prayers
post #57 of 113
And so when the time comes, she will pass with her family around her, loving her back to her Creator. She will leave her body behind, but will take all the love she has ever felt, and bring it with her to her escort angels. These angels will surround her, and continue the love she knows with her family. They will aid her, guide her, and sing her home, back into the Love That IS, and the Love That Always Will BE.

And some of that love she experiences will come back to you. Cindy, when you hold Charlie's hand, feel his love to you through his entwined fingers. Charlie, Cindy's love comes to you through her fingers nestled securely in yours. Together, you form a powerful connection with his mother, who is loving each of you through each other. She is sharing that love, that joy, that peace she now is enveloped in, with each of you, giving it to you to give away to the other. For in the giving is the completion of the circle, the endless circle of love and life and death and love. Give the love back, as it's given to you, and you complete the circle.

Grieve as you both must. Cry, and yell, and scream. And when it's out (and it must be let out), remember each other. Come together, and entwine your fingers together. And know that Mother is there again, the circle complete again, love flowing again.

For it is not Time which heals all wounds; it is Love which is the healer. And the circle the path that Love takes.

You both are in my thoughts and prayers, and may your Mother pass into the eternity of love and joy and peace surrounded by angels laughing.

post #58 of 113
That is incredibly beautiful, Michele.

Love and thoughts and prayers for you, Cindy and Charlie, and family
post #59 of 113
Wonderful words for all of us to remember Michelle when we all have times of loss with our loved ones........Cindy, please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all.......
post #60 of 113
Wow, Michele, that was beautiful, and will mean so much to Cindy and Charlie.
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