help! my cat is biting my daughter!

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I recently took my cat in as a stray. She was born last summer from a litter of kittens from a neighbors cat who basically abandoned them. didn't feed them and their kids abused the kittens. This kitten pretty much adopted us. She is the sweetest cat. She just wants to be with us and wants attention all the time. I finally took her in my house and decided to keep her. But she's developed a serious problem. When my 2 year old is laying down getting her diaper changed or is crying the cat wants to bite her in the head! The first time she did it she latched on to her forehead. She tried to do it again a few days ago. DD was sick and I was holding her. She was cranky and the cat sat up behind me on the couch and I could see her trying to get in there to grab her head. I firmly told her no and nudged her away. She then latched onto my neck! I grabbed her and put her on the floor. A few minutes later I had to go into the other room to get something and I heard DD screaming. I go back in the room and the cat is latched onto the back of her head!

I don't know what to do. This is my first cat and I do not know anything about their behaviour. She is the sweetest cat and we just love having her around but we can't keep her here if she's hurting my daughter. She is usually very playful with our kids and seems to really like them. And she doesn't get roughhandled by our kids or anything. Is this normal behaviour for a cat and is there anything that can be done about it? Could this be a medical problem or something (she hasn't been spayed yet, she's getting it next month). I don't think you can really train a cat not to do something, can you? I don't know, I've always had dogs and I know how to handle most of dog problems. But I'm stumped here. Help!
 

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It's good you're getting her spayed as this could be a major cause of the biting behaviour. Can you get her in any earlier as she may be in heat. It's interesting that the cat concentrates on your or your DD's head and neck, especially when she is cranky or crying. Mom-cats carry their kittens by the scruff of the next and sometimes by holding the head in her mouth. I wonder if what she is doing is a misdirected attempt to move or comfort your DD, like she would with a kitten.

The biting may also be the cat equivalent of an invitation to play. Have you considered getting another kitten for her to play with?
 

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My guess is she is not going after your daughter, but perhaps after her sweet scent- shampoo perhaps? A lot of commercial shampoos have animal renderings added to them, although I have only learned that about adult shampoos not a child's? I would seclude your cat into another room while you do diaper changes, it could be the smell of the fecal/urine material or? something else triggering the attacks. I would also investigate Bach Flower Remedies for your kitty to mellow out the attacks-
 
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I'm going to go up today and try to move up her surgery. I'm wondering if jealousy could be causing this. She's mostly attached to me. I'm the one who started feeding her when she was (literally) starving to death and I give her more attention than anyone else in the family. It's my lap she prefers to sit on. Every time this has happened, I was directing my attention to DD. I don't know if cats get jealous like that. But she doesn't do this with my older kids who I don't hold them as often as the 2 year old.

What is bach flower remedies?

I do want to get another kitty but DH isn't very cooperative about that right now. But we may be moving to another state this summer so I'll wait before getting any new pet until after we move.
 

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You may go to www.littlebigcat.com and learn about Bach Flower remedies, Cat Faeries is another place with a good assortment of remedies, they are holistic ways to just calm your cat down during anxious times. The Comfort Zone Room Diffuser is another option, as is spaying this cat-




Also be sure and take your cat into an room by herself and do one on one interactive play with her at least 10 minutes a day-
 

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Originally Posted by mason

I recently took my cat in as a stray. She was born last summer from a litter of kittens from a neighbors cat who basically abandoned them. didn't feed them and their kids abused the kittens. This kitten pretty much adopted us. She is the sweetest cat. She just wants to be with us and wants attention all the time. I finally took her in my house and decided to keep her. But she's developed a serious problem. When my 2 year old is laying down getting her diaper changed or is crying the cat wants to bite her in the head! The first time she did it she latched on to her forehead. She tried to do it again a few days ago. DD was sick and I was holding her. She was cranky and the cat sat up behind me on the couch and I could see her trying to get in there to grab her head. I firmly told her no and nudged her away. She then latched onto my neck! I grabbed her and put her on the floor. A few minutes later I had to go into the other room to get something and I heard DD screaming. I go back in the room and the cat is latched onto the back of her head!

I don't know what to do. This is my first cat and I do not know anything about their behaviour. She is the sweetest cat and we just love having her around but we can't keep her here if she's hurting my daughter. She is usually very playful with our kids and seems to really like them. And she doesn't get roughhandled by our kids or anything. Is this normal behaviour for a cat and is there anything that can be done about it? Could this be a medical problem or something (she hasn't been spayed yet, she's getting it next month). I don't think you can really train a cat not to do something, can you? I don't know, I've always had dogs and I know how to handle most of dog problems. But I'm stumped here. Help!
Maybe she thinks your daughter is a kitten and wants to drag her into the safe place?
Cats carry their kittens in their mouth.
So, if the daughter is crying, cat maybe wants to carry her somewhere?
 
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