Hi there! I am not sure that I have seen your original post yet, but welcome to the site
You can click new posts on the top of the page and it will pull up any new posts since your last visit. It will even show who was the last person to respond. Or you can look for your post and check it out. Also, what I usually do if it is a question I have asked I will select the option for an email alert when someone responds. You can find that option when you are making a new post, before you hit submit
I moved your thread to the Behavior Forum where people who have experience with behavioral issues will see your thread. You can check on it here: http://www.thecatsite.com/forums/showthread.php?t=37628 or just go to the Behavor Forum and look for it. It should be near the top of the page.