My father passed away almost 5 years ago, to me it seems much more recent.
If I could have one more conversation with him, pre the Parkinson's and his strokes, I would say....
I wish I knew you better. I love you so deeply, without any particular reason other than that you are my dad, my handsome dad who tells corny jokes (as do I), whose taste in Italian pastrie's I share (pusties from the Florentine Bakery in Utica), who gave me the kind of support I had always needed, just when I needed it at 27, when my engagement ended. You never made me feel like you'd be disappointed if I didn't marry and give you grandchildren...you just wanted me to be happy.
Being less than perfect people, at the end of the day, the greatest gift is to love someone as they are, as completely as you can...and you did, and I miss & love you so very much.
If I could have one more conversation with him, pre the Parkinson's and his strokes, I would say....
I wish I knew you better. I love you so deeply, without any particular reason other than that you are my dad, my handsome dad who tells corny jokes (as do I), whose taste in Italian pastrie's I share (pusties from the Florentine Bakery in Utica), who gave me the kind of support I had always needed, just when I needed it at 27, when my engagement ended. You never made me feel like you'd be disappointed if I didn't marry and give you grandchildren...you just wanted me to be happy.
Being less than perfect people, at the end of the day, the greatest gift is to love someone as they are, as completely as you can...and you did, and I miss & love you so very much.