I think it was a fair question also.
In my younger days i loved dressing sexy, yes you do get guys talking to you in a different way, yes they do pay more attention and the like, but believe you me, it's not 'respect' they're giving you. From having two brothers and mostly all male friends, thats one thing i've learnt.
Theres a difference between looking attractive and looking cheap. Britney looks cheap, but in a trashy kinda sexy way. However she's an entertainer, and really she is doing just that- entertaining.
now if a girl were to dress in a similar way (ok not EXACTLY the same way) out and about i'd probably stare and yeah i'd say something if i were with someone.
Maybe it's not right, but in my eys that girl is doing it for attention, so in a way they should expect to get every type of attention, good AND bad.
I train in a hospital and have patients, i still dress attractively, but by no means sexy. Now it's a different type of respect i get, and you can certainly feel the difference.
I too unfortunately am larger on top, but i've come to realise that what the less 'endowed' girl can get away with, i cant because it just looks too sexy.
Don't know how this got so long winded, but there you go- my honest opinion.
oooh and gotta add, just because you're beautiful, doesn't automatically make other women hate you, you can be beautiful and liked
More likely it's the attitutde coming through.