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I recently moved to an apartment in a new city, leaving behind my neighbor's cat, who over the past year-and-a-half adopted me. I bonded with him and now miss him terribly, and am wondering whether I did the right thing by leaving him behind. He has lived for 5 years in the beautiful, protected garden of a small, lovely apartment complex with my neighbor, who is rarely home because of business travel. The cat first began to visit me after work in the evenings, and was soon eating at my place, then snuggling with me on the sofa, and ultimately sleeping on the foot of my bed most nights. I discussed all but the snuggling and sleeping part (too embarrassing!) with my neighbor, who was pleased that someone could care for her cat while she was away (though she lamented that her frequent travel precluded her from being better at it).
When I discovered that my own work demanded that I move to an urban city without outdoor apartments, I knew that I would have to leave the kitty behind. It seemed wrong to take my neighbor's cat, firstly, and also dreadful to move him from his own little eden to a nice but still indoor environment. Did I do the right thing? I miss the little guy SO much and am so afraid that I hurt him by getting close and then abandoning him. Is he there - 3 weeks later - wondering what happened to me? Are cats more attached to places than people? Should I email my neighbor about courriering her cat to me? Was it terrible for ever having let him into my life? This was my first cat relationship and I'm just not sure what to do, and was hoping more seasoned cat folk like yourselves might have some insight on the matter. Thanks kindly for your thoughts and help!
When I discovered that my own work demanded that I move to an urban city without outdoor apartments, I knew that I would have to leave the kitty behind. It seemed wrong to take my neighbor's cat, firstly, and also dreadful to move him from his own little eden to a nice but still indoor environment. Did I do the right thing? I miss the little guy SO much and am so afraid that I hurt him by getting close and then abandoning him. Is he there - 3 weeks later - wondering what happened to me? Are cats more attached to places than people? Should I email my neighbor about courriering her cat to me? Was it terrible for ever having let him into my life? This was my first cat relationship and I'm just not sure what to do, and was hoping more seasoned cat folk like yourselves might have some insight on the matter. Thanks kindly for your thoughts and help!