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I believe that animals can express pain, depression, joy, and even jealousy, but is it possible for animals to be selfish? just like people can?
The reason I am asking this (and the following question) is that my cat Lily will often throw her body over a little cat scratcher in their outdoor cat pen. Whenever Autumn ventures nearby, she gets whacked in the face by Lily. Lily also has a habit of seeking Autumn out for a grooming session. She will put her head down, lay her ears flat, and shut her eyes. Autumn happily obliges until Lily gets licked in the "wrong" spots. Then Lily will start to bite Autumn (Lily bites at people too when they rub her near her shoulders. Her skin flinches alot and I believe she has very very sensitive skin and that is why she is so snappy when touched by humans or licked by Autumn). Sometimes Autumn will put her head down and shut her eyes, waiting for Lily to return the grooming favor. Lily NEVER does!! She takes all of Autumn's affections and gives none in return. Will this damage Autumn's psyche? Will Autumn get "hurt" that Lily isn't grooming her? or that Lily winds up biting at her? Lily is almost like a petulant child. She really is a very intelligent cat and does seem to exhibit very selfish behaviors. Am I nuts to think so?
The reason I am asking this (and the following question) is that my cat Lily will often throw her body over a little cat scratcher in their outdoor cat pen. Whenever Autumn ventures nearby, she gets whacked in the face by Lily. Lily also has a habit of seeking Autumn out for a grooming session. She will put her head down, lay her ears flat, and shut her eyes. Autumn happily obliges until Lily gets licked in the "wrong" spots. Then Lily will start to bite Autumn (Lily bites at people too when they rub her near her shoulders. Her skin flinches alot and I believe she has very very sensitive skin and that is why she is so snappy when touched by humans or licked by Autumn). Sometimes Autumn will put her head down and shut her eyes, waiting for Lily to return the grooming favor. Lily NEVER does!! She takes all of Autumn's affections and gives none in return. Will this damage Autumn's psyche? Will Autumn get "hurt" that Lily isn't grooming her? or that Lily winds up biting at her? Lily is almost like a petulant child. She really is a very intelligent cat and does seem to exhibit very selfish behaviors. Am I nuts to think so?