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I have to clarify one thing up front: he's not meowing. He is SCREAMING. And people find this one hard to wrap their head around too: HE DOES NOT STOP. He is either asleep or screaming. Period.
Kitty is an 11 week old spotted male Bengal I got last week from his breeder. I've been visiting him since he was born but about a week before I picked him up he got sick. That's when him and the rest of the litter picked up their screaming habits from the one original screaming cat in the litter.
According to the vet he is all better now but he still has diarrhea.
Anyways, the point of this post is that he is absolutely driving us nuts. All the advice I have read in books and on the internet says to treat him good and give him positive reinforcement when he is not crying and then ignore him when he is. Well, what do you do when he never stops? I've tried snuggling him, I've tried playing with him, I've tried leaving him alone, I've tried shushing him. None of that works.
I tried shooting canned air at him but that didn't work either. Since he is always screaming he doesn't associate the canned air with the screaming. He just runs away still screaming and then I feel like a jerk for chasing him around with a can of compressed air.
My girlfriend and I are at our wits' end. We just paid $500 for this cat last week and we are already ready to give him away.
He has been to the vet and the vet is dumbfounded. They have no idea what to do.
Does anybody have ANY helpful advice before we give our new kitten away?
Please don't say to reward him when he is not meowing or to ignore him when he is. I know I have already said this but I keep having to repeat myself because people do not understand that he does not stop. Everybody thinks I am exaggerating until they hear him on the phone or meet him in person. He literally does not stop.
We are going crazy from lack of sleep and nothing we have tried is working. Any ideas?
Kitty is an 11 week old spotted male Bengal I got last week from his breeder. I've been visiting him since he was born but about a week before I picked him up he got sick. That's when him and the rest of the litter picked up their screaming habits from the one original screaming cat in the litter.
According to the vet he is all better now but he still has diarrhea.
Anyways, the point of this post is that he is absolutely driving us nuts. All the advice I have read in books and on the internet says to treat him good and give him positive reinforcement when he is not crying and then ignore him when he is. Well, what do you do when he never stops? I've tried snuggling him, I've tried playing with him, I've tried leaving him alone, I've tried shushing him. None of that works.
I tried shooting canned air at him but that didn't work either. Since he is always screaming he doesn't associate the canned air with the screaming. He just runs away still screaming and then I feel like a jerk for chasing him around with a can of compressed air.
My girlfriend and I are at our wits' end. We just paid $500 for this cat last week and we are already ready to give him away.
He has been to the vet and the vet is dumbfounded. They have no idea what to do.
Does anybody have ANY helpful advice before we give our new kitten away?
Please don't say to reward him when he is not meowing or to ignore him when he is. I know I have already said this but I keep having to repeat myself because people do not understand that he does not stop. Everybody thinks I am exaggerating until they hear him on the phone or meet him in person. He literally does not stop.
We are going crazy from lack of sleep and nothing we have tried is working. Any ideas?