Hi, I'm mancko and I'm new to the board!
My wife and I just got a new cat last week to keep our cat Thompson company. We thought there might be some problems with the new cat (her name is "Rowan") adjusting, but its been really awful.
First of all, there's absolutely no putting the two cats in the same room. Thompson seems to be curious and wants to sniff Rowan, but Ro immediately gets very agressive and starts hissing and swiping, as Thompson just backs off. That's okay, I guess, we're trying to get them used to each other.
The real problem is that it's been a week, and Rowan is still incredibly skittish with both of us. She is very nervous about every move we make, and if we move toward her too fast she hisses.
Also, when we're just sitting there, she'll come over to us and rub against our legs, roll over, as if she wants to be loved, but if we try to pet her (Erin (my wife) has better luck with this than me) she'll hiss and swipe at us.
We want to give her her space, but we live in a small apartment, so we either have to keep her in a separate room (away from Thompson), or put Thompson in a separate room to let her explore the apartment. Thompson, however, despises closed doors and either meows loudly or does some incredibly loud shaking of the door by grabbing underneath it with his paw.
The point is: She's too scared of Thompson, which we expected, but she'd also really scared of us, which we didn't.
Any thoughts?
Thanks!
My wife and I just got a new cat last week to keep our cat Thompson company. We thought there might be some problems with the new cat (her name is "Rowan") adjusting, but its been really awful.
First of all, there's absolutely no putting the two cats in the same room. Thompson seems to be curious and wants to sniff Rowan, but Ro immediately gets very agressive and starts hissing and swiping, as Thompson just backs off. That's okay, I guess, we're trying to get them used to each other.
The real problem is that it's been a week, and Rowan is still incredibly skittish with both of us. She is very nervous about every move we make, and if we move toward her too fast she hisses.
Also, when we're just sitting there, she'll come over to us and rub against our legs, roll over, as if she wants to be loved, but if we try to pet her (Erin (my wife) has better luck with this than me) she'll hiss and swipe at us.
We want to give her her space, but we live in a small apartment, so we either have to keep her in a separate room (away from Thompson), or put Thompson in a separate room to let her explore the apartment. Thompson, however, despises closed doors and either meows loudly or does some incredibly loud shaking of the door by grabbing underneath it with his paw.
The point is: She's too scared of Thompson, which we expected, but she'd also really scared of us, which we didn't.
Any thoughts?
Thanks!