Here's some background on the situation first:
My oldest son, Garrett, has a half brother who is 18 years old. Garrett's dad has had custody of his brother for most of his life for reasons that are irrelevant. However, a few weeks ago, Garrett's brother's girlfriend had their baby and they moved back in with his father. (complicated, I know) Garrett's dad is an overbearing controlling person--big time and so Garrett's brother and him do not get along at all. Now to my problem here...
This past weekend, Garrett's dad called to ask if I knew where Garrett's brother was. At that time I didn't. I didn't hear anything else about the situation so I forgot about it and assumed he went back to his dad's house. Yesterday I saw the brother walking down the street so I stopped him and asked how he, the baby and mom were and he starts telling me all about why he left and this and that. (we have always been pretty close). He told me where he was at and that he didnt want me to tell his father where he was because he knows his dad will start trouble. I said I wouldn't. Today, his dad called and left a message that he was still looking for him and that he was really worried about him. I didnt return his call or anything. Should I tell him where he is or do I lie and say I haven't seen or heard from him? We are friendly with one another and I don't have any real problem with him except I find him to be bossy and controlling..always has to be his way kind of thing. First of all I don't want to be caught up in this all as it is, secondly, I don't think he's looked too hard because his son is somewhere very easy to figure out. I can't avoid phone calls forever because he just lives down the street and he will come knocking on the door sooner or later. What to do?
My oldest son, Garrett, has a half brother who is 18 years old. Garrett's dad has had custody of his brother for most of his life for reasons that are irrelevant. However, a few weeks ago, Garrett's brother's girlfriend had their baby and they moved back in with his father. (complicated, I know) Garrett's dad is an overbearing controlling person--big time and so Garrett's brother and him do not get along at all. Now to my problem here...
This past weekend, Garrett's dad called to ask if I knew where Garrett's brother was. At that time I didn't. I didn't hear anything else about the situation so I forgot about it and assumed he went back to his dad's house. Yesterday I saw the brother walking down the street so I stopped him and asked how he, the baby and mom were and he starts telling me all about why he left and this and that. (we have always been pretty close). He told me where he was at and that he didnt want me to tell his father where he was because he knows his dad will start trouble. I said I wouldn't. Today, his dad called and left a message that he was still looking for him and that he was really worried about him. I didnt return his call or anything. Should I tell him where he is or do I lie and say I haven't seen or heard from him? We are friendly with one another and I don't have any real problem with him except I find him to be bossy and controlling..always has to be his way kind of thing. First of all I don't want to be caught up in this all as it is, secondly, I don't think he's looked too hard because his son is somewhere very easy to figure out. I can't avoid phone calls forever because he just lives down the street and he will come knocking on the door sooner or later. What to do?