caz..what I did was let my boyfriend at the time pick out the second kitten...that way...one kitten was "mine"...one kitten was "his". It's amazing how you pick out a kitten that mimics your behavior.
When we broke up...I got to keep both Tigger and Habenaro since they LOVE each other. If you can't convince to allow a second one..that's fine too....again....it's only a recommendation.
Can't wait to see pictures.