I have been reading some of the posts here regarding those of us here who have cats or other pets and have to deal with those who are allergic to our furry friends.
The last year and a half I have been seeing someone who lives 20 min away in another city, however the scales here are not balanced, she has been here maybe twice and basically refuses to come here or make an effort to come here because she is in so much discomfort when she comes here as I have 3 cats and when I was informed she was allergic to just about everything I said " I don't wanna seem unsympathetic but I am not getting rid of my cats in order to keep a girlfriend, that would be like asking me to get rid of my children, ain't gonna happen".
Last night I think the writing was on the wall as far as the two of us lasting any longer. She likes all my qualities yadda yadda but it's becoming painfully obvious that we just are simply not a match.... I'm not religious, I'm not a vegetarian, I hate baseball, I hate theatre and I prefer the comfort of my home after working all day. I'm not a workaholic, after working 10 hours a day I'm not about to go volunteer and do this and do that.
Additionally we have gotten into arguments over TV.... I'm not a couch potato but I do like watching TV and I will not part with it.
Sorry for the long rant.... just had to deal with it somewhere.
The last year and a half I have been seeing someone who lives 20 min away in another city, however the scales here are not balanced, she has been here maybe twice and basically refuses to come here or make an effort to come here because she is in so much discomfort when she comes here as I have 3 cats and when I was informed she was allergic to just about everything I said " I don't wanna seem unsympathetic but I am not getting rid of my cats in order to keep a girlfriend, that would be like asking me to get rid of my children, ain't gonna happen".
Last night I think the writing was on the wall as far as the two of us lasting any longer. She likes all my qualities yadda yadda but it's becoming painfully obvious that we just are simply not a match.... I'm not religious, I'm not a vegetarian, I hate baseball, I hate theatre and I prefer the comfort of my home after working all day. I'm not a workaholic, after working 10 hours a day I'm not about to go volunteer and do this and do that.
Additionally we have gotten into arguments over TV.... I'm not a couch potato but I do like watching TV and I will not part with it.
Sorry for the long rant.... just had to deal with it somewhere.