I read not so long ago, in a cat magazine, that to transfer your feelings to your cat you wait until he is sat down, and then look at him/her and think of how much you love him/her and the feelings are felt by the cat. It went even further and said that wait for the feelings to come back. I have never tried it, but I do think your kitties automatically know when they are loved, or why would they purr so much when they on your lap and hold their head with half closed eyes in pleasure? Of course there is the old one of just telling kittie how much you love them. They know I am sure.