I'm just warning you all I'm pretty upset right now. I'm actually shaking...
Well it finally happened. I finally met someone in person who is against NOT declawing and considers neutering mutilation! I hadn't actually met anyone in person like that before....I guess maybe because I've never really known much about this before I got my cats which was in September. I researched declawing at the request of my vet, as I was going to declaw Sparta, and it made me completely change my mind on the matter. I will not declaw my cats but I do feel it is up to the owner.
I told this guy (I don't even know his name!) what I know about declawing and he just said whatever, he wouldn't own a cat with claws.
I said that if he educated himself on the matter that he would understand my position. He then said that if he spent thousands of dollars on a leather couch that he wouldn't want it ruined by a cat. I said that if you clip their claws often enough and use those sticky pad things, it would be fine. I even told him how Sparta hates to be touched but that she lets me clip her claws (miraculously!) as long as I have the treats in plain view. No budging... He even said that all that is just too much work for him and he's not willing to do it. Oh well, I guess it's his decision and I've done what I can and I'm not going to impose myself and my beliefs on him any more. And for the record, I do not want this thread to turn into a debate about declawing, I just want to vent!
Then I mentioned that Ares got neutered yesterday (and he's doing fine!
). That apparently was a mistake because I ended up being even more upset. He started on me about how can I be against declawing but for the mutilation and humiliation of "cutting off his" you-know-whats. Oh my goodness! Declawing I can deal with but spay and neuter?! Come on buddy! I told him that it helps them live a better life and eliminates the risk of unwanted kittens. He said that he would want a spay/neutered cat (thank goodness!) but he doesn't understand how I can condone spaying/neutering but be against declawing! I said one helps them live a better life and the other doesn't do any good. He said they're basically the same thing since they're both removing something. That was when I turned around and ignored him.
I can't believe some people. I'm sorry for this rant...I'm really upset right now. And it upsets me that this guy is actually not too bad! There are much worse people. He said he would spay/neuter his cats, which is great, but there are people who won't and that bothers me so much! But anyway I don't want this to be an IMO post, I just wanted to vent and I figured TCS was a good place because you guys are so great.
Thanks so much for listening everyone. It's my first brush with someone like this. I promise I won't post every time I meet someone like this.
Trish
Well it finally happened. I finally met someone in person who is against NOT declawing and considers neutering mutilation! I hadn't actually met anyone in person like that before....I guess maybe because I've never really known much about this before I got my cats which was in September. I researched declawing at the request of my vet, as I was going to declaw Sparta, and it made me completely change my mind on the matter. I will not declaw my cats but I do feel it is up to the owner.
I told this guy (I don't even know his name!) what I know about declawing and he just said whatever, he wouldn't own a cat with claws.
Then I mentioned that Ares got neutered yesterday (and he's doing fine!
Thanks so much for listening everyone. It's my first brush with someone like this. I promise I won't post every time I meet someone like this.
Trish