Frightened stray just gave birth and I don't know what to do!

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I was at my boyfriend's house last Thursday. There are a lot of stray and feral cats in his neighborhood. He puts dry food and water out for them. There are a few that will let him pet them. Anyway, we were painting some shelves on his driveway and one of the cats was on the porch. He started to pet her and said that she was pregnant. I thought that she shouldn't have to give birth outside. He was not bothered by the idea. So I said, if she'll let you pick her up then put her in a carrier and I'll take her home. When the kittens are old enough they can get adopted because I'll make sure they're healthy and well socialized. Then the mama can be adopted or spayed and put back in his yard if that what the local experts recommend. I live in a two-bedroom apartment. I'm a single mom with an 8-yo and 10-yo. We have two sweet calm neutered kitties -  Jack, adopted as a kitten - he's about 1 year old) and a rescue named Booter (I'm not even sure of the gender - about 10 years-old. My boyfriend's long-time friend and neighbor died last fall. My boyfriend took in his friend's 4 indoor kitties. I was lamenting the fact that Jack is not a lap kitty and he said, "Give Booter a try, he's a lap kitty). So Booter joined the family and it's been amazing to see all these animals and people bond. We're one big happy family! We also have a 2-yo neutered Chihuahua who's great with cats because he thinks he is one. His name is Don Pedro.

Okay, back to the mama kitty. I brought her into the apartment Thursday afternoon. I put her in the master bathroom with dry food, canned food, water, a crate, a shallow box lined with a towel and a litter box. The few times I checked on her she was just cowering behind the toilet and she barely touched the food, if at all.

Friday she ate a little bit, used the litter box and cried some. I decided I would open the bathroom door and give her run of the master bedroom and bathroom. I would lightly knock on the door and talk softly when I entered the room. I caught a few fleeting glimpses of her running under the bed. She was eating and drinking a lot more and peeing and pooping.

Yesterday, Don (my boyfriend) came over and went into my room alone and called her. She came out and let him pet her. Last night I entered the room more quickly than usual and went to the vanity area (it's between the bedroom and bathroom. I inadvertantly kind of trapped her between me and the bathroom. She seemed pretty tense. I knelt down and put my hand out. She sniffed me. I tried to pet her and she backed away so I slowly rose and left the room. Last night in the wee hours of the morning I heard her scratching and thumping under my bed.

I didn't see her today, but I wasn't home or in my room much. About two hours ago I was standing next to bed putting some clean clothes on hangers and I thought I heard a tiny, short mew. I wasn't sure. I thought it could've been something outside or maybe I bumped my rocker/recliner and it squeaked. I froze and then I heard more mewing. I'm freaking out. I'm sure it's really dusty under my bed. I thought I had more time to clean under there. I put canned food, dry food, water, the shallow towel-lined box and the litter box on the floor on the side of the bed that I don't use, hoping to make it easier for her to get her needs met without going across the room, vanity area and into the bathroom.

I am so worried. I don't want to stress her. But if I don't look under there can I feel okay that things are okay? I thought about asking Don to come over and look under there because she obviously feels better about him than anyone else. 

Please let me know what's the best way to proceed. I scared to do the wrong thing. I'm scared to do nothing. Thank you in advance.
 

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I see you are thinking right and doint mostly absolutely right.  There is one exception - give her access and the possibility to hide under the bed...  Old trap.  The usual trick is to lower down the bed onto the floor.

Probably the best is to let her be there for now.   But DO prepare an nice alternative bed / nest.

They usually want some darkish place, walls around.  so some deep cardboard box is commonly used - not shallow.   You can cut out a part so she can easily come into it...

See you!

Good luck!
 

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I was at my boyfriend's house last Thursday. There are a lot of stray and feral cats in his neighborhood. He puts dry food and water out for them. There are a few that will let him pet them. Anyway, we were painting some shelves on his driveway and one of the cats was on the porch. He started to pet her and said that she was pregnant. I thought that she shouldn't have to give birth outside. He was not bothered by the idea. So I said, if she'll let you pick her up then put her in a carrier and I'll take her home. When the kittens are old enough they can get adopted because I'll make sure they're healthy and well socialized. Then the mama can be adopted or spayed and put back in his yard if that what the local experts recommend. I live in a two-bedroom apartment. I'm a single mom with an 8-yo and 10-yo. We have two sweet calm neutered kitties -  Jack, adopted as a kitten - he's about 1 year old) and a rescue named Booter (I'm not even sure of the gender - about 10 years-old. My boyfriend's long-time friend and neighbor died last fall. My boyfriend took in his friend's 4 indoor kitties. I was lamenting the fact that Jack is not a lap kitty and he said, "Give Booter a try, he's a lap kitty). So Booter joined the family and it's been amazing to see all these animals and people bond. We're one big happy family! We also have a 2-yo neutered Chihuahua who's great with cats because he thinks he is one. His name is Don Pedro.

Okay, back to the mama kitty. I brought her into the apartment Thursday afternoon. I put her in the master bathroom with dry food, canned food, water, a crate, a shallow box lined with a towel and a litter box. The few times I checked on her she was just cowering behind the toilet and she barely touched the food, if at all.

Friday she ate a little bit, used the litter box and cried some. I decided I would open the bathroom door and give her run of the master bedroom and bathroom. I would lightly knock on the door and talk softly when I entered the room. I caught a few fleeting glimpses of her running under the bed. She was eating and drinking a lot more and peeing and pooping.

Yesterday, Don (my boyfriend) came over and went into my room alone and called her. She came out and let him pet her. Last night I entered the room more quickly than usual and went to the vanity area (it's between the bedroom and bathroom. I inadvertantly kind of trapped her between me and the bathroom. She seemed pretty tense. I knelt down and put my hand out. She sniffed me. I tried to pet her and she backed away so I slowly rose and left the room. Last night in the wee hours of the morning I heard her scratching and thumping under my bed.

I didn't see her today, but I wasn't home or in my room much. About two hours ago I was standing next to bed putting some clean clothes on hangers and I thought I heard a tiny, short mew. I wasn't sure. I thought it could've been something outside or maybe I bumped my rocker/recliner and it squeaked. I froze and then I heard more mewing. I'm freaking out. I'm sure it's really dusty under my bed. I thought I had more time to clean under there. I put canned food, dry food, water, the shallow towel-lined box and the litter box on the floor on the side of the bed that I don't use, hoping to make it easier for her to get her needs met without going across the room, vanity area and into the bathroom.

I am so worried. I don't want to stress her. But if I don't look under there can I feel okay that things are okay? I thought about asking Don to come over and look under there because she obviously feels better about him than anyone else. 

Please let me know what's the best way to proceed. I scared to do the wrong thing. I'm scared to do nothing. Thank you in advance.
Re your boyfriend.  You didnt mentioned he is doing TNR / spying on them.  He should!  Giving the hungry food is nice and good, but it becomes splendid first if there is a plan with it - in practice  TNR and or a programme for adopting.

YOUR idea to take the momma in etc, was the excellent one, straight from the manual.

OK, if they are so buddy with you boyfriend, you can line in her nest you want to entice her to with smell of your boyfriend.  Ie take one of his used t-shirts, or even socks, and lay them there...

Also, they like to have possibility to hide some, so some type of cat igloo.  Or even a sideturned cardboard box, with something comfortable to lay on...  (you missed this in your bathroom)

Anyways, her postioin under the bed isnt ideal by far, but its still a whole world better than it would be outside, taking all the risks there is....    So be contend with it, if she doesnt wants to move into the prepared nest.

As said, your thinking as a whole is very right, nice and beautiful.   You will do nicely with time.

Proceed with talking much in a friendly voice, not stressing, being warm to her...  Its natural language of cats.    Compare with a friendly, courting tom, contra a dominant, territorial tom...   
 

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Have you looked? Sounds like mom gave birth under the bed. It might not hurt to have Don look and offer mom comfort. She seems to know him better. You did right to bring her in though. She will acclimate to your room over time. Moms love dark, private places for their newborns.
 

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Hi so yes if you can let Don check under the bed to see if she is OK and if (the kittens are even born yet) the kitten (s) are ok and are not hurt
 
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Don came over this morning and was able to lay on the floor next to my bed and pet the mama cat. He was able to determine that there are 3 kittens and they all appear to be doing well.

She is eating and using the litter box a lot so I'm feeling good about that.

Based on what StefanZ wrote I washed out a small/medium dog crate that I have. I'm going to assemble it without the door, and put a dark towel over the top. I'm hoping she'll decide that that's a better place for her babies.

Thank you for the support!
 

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Thank you for checking in. It's a relief to hear they are doing well. If mom is happy where she is, leave her be and continue to let Don check for now. It will be okay. Hang in there and keep us updated! [emoji]128522[/emoji]
 
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This week has gone by so incredibly fast.

I have long hair and thyroid issues (my hair falls out) so I was really worried that that the kittens could ingest or get a hair wound around them somewhere, cutting off circulation. Don made fun of my anxiety and now refers to my hair as "kitten stranglers" - LOL.  On Sunday he came over and we put the kittens and mama in a box, put the box in the hall bathroom and then moved my king-size mattress and box springs and thoroughly vacuumed under the bed. After he saw all the kitten stranglers, dust, lint and goose down and feathers, he conceded that I was right to be concerned. The mama was a little mad at us for a day, but now when I go in my room she is usually out and about and she doesn't bolt. If I sit on the floor she comes to me and lets me pet her.

Yesterday I let my DS8 and DD10 sit on my bed silently after washing their hands with unscented soap. I picked up the kittens and set them on the bed. They we okay for about 60 seconds and then one mewed loudly while being held. Hope (the mama) was under the beds and started to meow too so I quickly and gently put the babies back. Their eyes are starting to open!!! 

They are so cute (as are all kittens, I'm sure). Hope (mama) is a calico and she has one black kitten with white paws and some white on its chest and two white kittens - one with three small dots of gray on its head and one with one small dot of gray.

I'm feeding Hope Nulo Kitten dry cat food and Tiki Paw Lickin' Chicken mixed with a little bit of Rad Cat Raw turkey. I'm not thrilled with Tiki and I'm going to order some ZiwiPeak. I went to a local boutique pet food store and the owner was so kind - he gave me all the free samples he had and then he gave me about six different cans of premium food to try. She liked the Paw Lickin' Chicken the most and I figured that even if it's not the best it doesn't matter that I prefer frozen raw food if she won't eat it!

I have pictures on my mobile phone - what is the easiest way to post them here?
 

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Get the TCS app on your phone, then upload the pictures using the photo button in the response box. It looks like a mountain with a sun.

Glad to hear they are doing well and that you got under your bed cleaned. Sounds like mom is eating well too. Yes, just feed her what she likes and lots of it.

There will be plenty of time for your children to hold and play with the kittens when they begin to explore away from under the bed. Moms get pretty upset the first 3 weeks. After that the kittens are a little less fragile. [emoji]128522[/emoji]
 
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