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rosiejones

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Can not cope at the moment miss my rosie so much in tears everyday. Missing her loving personality. I have a locket from blue cross and a lock of rosies hair. I knew she was 20 and had a amazing life and one day soon her time would come. She was a huge part of our family my heart is broken.
 

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When they are a part of your life for so long, they become a constant, a life so intertwined with your own it becomes a part that makes your life whole.  Then like every living thing, they have to leave you and there is such an emptiness we feel lost and adrift. Of course your heart is broken, she was a member of your family and a loving one at that. Allow your heart to purge itself through tears and grief, it helps to let it out and to let others share your burden for a while. Time is the only thing that helps, in time you will make a new life's order for yourself, and learn to live once again without your precious girl's presence. But that does not mean she is gone, she has shed her earthly tired body, but the 'essence' of Rosie, that which made her who she was, and the love she has for you and your family will always be there. It is spiritual, eternal, so not bound to this earth, and will be tied to your very soul by the bond you formed over twenty years of loving each other. Her new path will parallel yours until they cross once more.  Hold on to the fact that she would never want you to be so sad when remembering her, she would only want you to remember the good times, the happy times you had together, not dwell on the end. Live like you would want her to live if you were the first to go, that is what true love is. You gave her a wonderful long life, and for that she is grateful, and in return she gave you so much love and happiness. Cherish your precious memories, they will bring you comfort in the years ahead. 

I'll keep you both in my thoughts and prayers, I cry with you because I know how much it hurts. Take care........RIP sweet, sweet Rosie. You will never be forgotten and will always hold a special place in a heart that will love you forever. May you find a warm lap among the angels who welcome you to the Rainbow Bridge. Sleep tight little Princess!
 

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We sure understand how you feel and how hard it is to loose our little sweet peas, it feels like you will never be happy again, but one day you will. 20 years is such a long time together that you became so close, so how you are feeling is quite understandable. Part of your heart died with her too, as it does with any loss, so sorry this happened to you.

May your heart heal a bit more each day....I'm going to go right now and hug Sylvester, my little tuxedo boy you see above left, and send healing vibes to you and your sweet Rosie. God Bless.....
 
 
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