A little background. I am a first time cat mom so I don't know what I'm doing and every little thing that my baby, named Hypy, does raises concerns in me. I'm worried if he meows, I'm worried if he doesn't. I'm worried if he sleeps, I'm worried if he doesn't. You get the point. My father has a friend who is a vet and he thinks I worry too much, that as long as the cat's eating, playing and sleeping, I shouldn't be alarmed. So I just wanted to talk to someone who has practical experience with cats so I can avoid vet trips if necessary and spare my cat unnecessary distress. And also to know when to take a cat to a vet.
My cat is a rescue I adopted from an under managed 'shelter', more like a home for animals, but we won't get into that. So vet help from them is non-existent. He wasn't even in perfect health when we got him (I'll explain a bit more later). I don't know how old he is, but he is an adult. He is big, a tad bit overweight. He is active. Sleeps well. Eats enough, I think. He pees and poops twice a day, in the morning and in the evening. Has done so since he came here almost 3 months ago. Some times he goes once a day, but seems normal those days and resumes going twice the very next day. Everything seems normal for the most part, but as far as I can see he has 3 problems right now: ear mites and small infection, a bit of cold (he sneezes a lot some times), and needs to be dewormed. I am using drops from the ear stuff, but some days it's difficult because I can't give it to him when's he's awake, only when he's sleeping. I have tried to give him antibiotic medicine for the cold that the vet prescribed but he won't take it, but I'll try again tomorrow. Same with the deworming medicine, which I will administer to him with a syringe today. All this stuff he brought home from the shelter (they said he'd been dewormed but the vet suggested to give him some meds anyway). Like I said in my previous post on this site, taking medicine is the only time he is truly fussy. His symptoms include scratching at the ear and neck, sneezing, light discharge from the eyes. He also had fleas when he came but I administered a spot on and he seems rid of them. When he first came in he scratched and pulled out his hair a lot and I think it was partly because of the fleas and mites, but also because of stress. I've dealt with that and he doesn't excessively groom himself anymore. So all good. Only I have a couple of other questions and I don't know if they are serious problems:
1. He seems to be breathing a little hard. I don't know if I've never noticed it before or if it's a newer development. My mother says it's mainly because I play with him too much. As he got more comfortable with his new home and understood playing with toys he's been becoming more active. These days he jumps and twirls in the air to catch a feather on a pole. I play with him before every meal and I serve him 5-6 meals a day (if he sleeps through it, he might skip a meal). 4 of those last about 20-30 mins. 2 of them last 10-15 mins. Is that too much? I only play with him so he doesn't get bored and so that he won't wake me up in the night because he didn't get enough play during the day. I stop if seems tired and just doesn't want to come get the toy and waits for it to come to him so he can swat at it. At which point I give him his food. I noticed this hard breathing about 15 mins after a play session when he finished eating, a bit of licking and was lying down. His stomach was visibly rising and falling. I thought he was simply exhausted. But I've been noticing this almost all the time, since the first time I started looking for it. I am not sure if it's because he has long fur and it just seems that way. He isn't panting through his mouth or seem otherwise distressed. His breathing isn't audible either. But I feel warm puffs if I put my head very close to his. Is that normal? A few times it seems as if it is a little faster than normal. So my questions are, how much is too much play time and is that breathing something to be concerned about? What other signs should I look for to figure out if he needs medical attention? (My father talked to his vet friend about it and he said I was worrying to much. I haven't talked to Hypy's official vet yet. Should I? I assume he'll tell me the same thing and will charge for it).
2. His back ripples when I pet him. When we first got him he had scabs on his lower back. Don't know if it was fleas of if he bit himself (he used to bite his nipples and excessively lick himself to the point of pulling out fur when he got him). Now the fleas and excessive licking is gone and so are the scabs. But from the start his back rippled whenever I touched it or petted it. He doesn't seem usually bothered by it but I don't think he likes being petted with long strokes on the back (he isn't that big on petting anyway. Was a little more needy when he first came, but soon grew out of it). I avoided scratching him on the back so far, so as to not irritate his scabs further. I haven't tried to do that again. I know that is one of the symptoms of Feline Hyperesthesia but he doesn't seem to have the rest of the symptoms of scratching, biting, licking and self mutilating out of nowhere. He also doesn't suddenly up and run out of the room like the devil is on his heels. He does run around a bit sometimes after using the litter box, but he seems more in the mood to play and burn off energy than anything else. Is this something to be worried about or do some cats do that without any other disease?
I know I might sound a bit paranoid about everything, but I just want him to be comfortable, happy and healthy with me. Also, any advice on how to give him meds is appreciated. I tried the syringe method a couple of times but was never able to get the whole thing into him and he drooled a lot one time. He is not a happy cat when I do that. And since I adopted him as an adult I don't know how to handle him and don't have the same control over him I would if I were his mommy since he was kitten. I looked online for palatable tablets but I live in India and I can't find any that ship here. The only meds he takes are his vitamin tablets and it's driving me crazy!
My cat is a rescue I adopted from an under managed 'shelter', more like a home for animals, but we won't get into that. So vet help from them is non-existent. He wasn't even in perfect health when we got him (I'll explain a bit more later). I don't know how old he is, but he is an adult. He is big, a tad bit overweight. He is active. Sleeps well. Eats enough, I think. He pees and poops twice a day, in the morning and in the evening. Has done so since he came here almost 3 months ago. Some times he goes once a day, but seems normal those days and resumes going twice the very next day. Everything seems normal for the most part, but as far as I can see he has 3 problems right now: ear mites and small infection, a bit of cold (he sneezes a lot some times), and needs to be dewormed. I am using drops from the ear stuff, but some days it's difficult because I can't give it to him when's he's awake, only when he's sleeping. I have tried to give him antibiotic medicine for the cold that the vet prescribed but he won't take it, but I'll try again tomorrow. Same with the deworming medicine, which I will administer to him with a syringe today. All this stuff he brought home from the shelter (they said he'd been dewormed but the vet suggested to give him some meds anyway). Like I said in my previous post on this site, taking medicine is the only time he is truly fussy. His symptoms include scratching at the ear and neck, sneezing, light discharge from the eyes. He also had fleas when he came but I administered a spot on and he seems rid of them. When he first came in he scratched and pulled out his hair a lot and I think it was partly because of the fleas and mites, but also because of stress. I've dealt with that and he doesn't excessively groom himself anymore. So all good. Only I have a couple of other questions and I don't know if they are serious problems:
1. He seems to be breathing a little hard. I don't know if I've never noticed it before or if it's a newer development. My mother says it's mainly because I play with him too much. As he got more comfortable with his new home and understood playing with toys he's been becoming more active. These days he jumps and twirls in the air to catch a feather on a pole. I play with him before every meal and I serve him 5-6 meals a day (if he sleeps through it, he might skip a meal). 4 of those last about 20-30 mins. 2 of them last 10-15 mins. Is that too much? I only play with him so he doesn't get bored and so that he won't wake me up in the night because he didn't get enough play during the day. I stop if seems tired and just doesn't want to come get the toy and waits for it to come to him so he can swat at it. At which point I give him his food. I noticed this hard breathing about 15 mins after a play session when he finished eating, a bit of licking and was lying down. His stomach was visibly rising and falling. I thought he was simply exhausted. But I've been noticing this almost all the time, since the first time I started looking for it. I am not sure if it's because he has long fur and it just seems that way. He isn't panting through his mouth or seem otherwise distressed. His breathing isn't audible either. But I feel warm puffs if I put my head very close to his. Is that normal? A few times it seems as if it is a little faster than normal. So my questions are, how much is too much play time and is that breathing something to be concerned about? What other signs should I look for to figure out if he needs medical attention? (My father talked to his vet friend about it and he said I was worrying to much. I haven't talked to Hypy's official vet yet. Should I? I assume he'll tell me the same thing and will charge for it).
2. His back ripples when I pet him. When we first got him he had scabs on his lower back. Don't know if it was fleas of if he bit himself (he used to bite his nipples and excessively lick himself to the point of pulling out fur when he got him). Now the fleas and excessive licking is gone and so are the scabs. But from the start his back rippled whenever I touched it or petted it. He doesn't seem usually bothered by it but I don't think he likes being petted with long strokes on the back (he isn't that big on petting anyway. Was a little more needy when he first came, but soon grew out of it). I avoided scratching him on the back so far, so as to not irritate his scabs further. I haven't tried to do that again. I know that is one of the symptoms of Feline Hyperesthesia but he doesn't seem to have the rest of the symptoms of scratching, biting, licking and self mutilating out of nowhere. He also doesn't suddenly up and run out of the room like the devil is on his heels. He does run around a bit sometimes after using the litter box, but he seems more in the mood to play and burn off energy than anything else. Is this something to be worried about or do some cats do that without any other disease?
I know I might sound a bit paranoid about everything, but I just want him to be comfortable, happy and healthy with me. Also, any advice on how to give him meds is appreciated. I tried the syringe method a couple of times but was never able to get the whole thing into him and he drooled a lot one time. He is not a happy cat when I do that. And since I adopted him as an adult I don't know how to handle him and don't have the same control over him I would if I were his mommy since he was kitten. I looked online for palatable tablets but I live in India and I can't find any that ship here. The only meds he takes are his vitamin tablets and it's driving me crazy!