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Okay so to start out with, I'm mostly a dog person, but after the loss of my dog I just couldn't handle getting another one for a while. To cope, I got my cat Abbie from the shelter about 3 years ago. She's about the only cat that I've really had that I can consider mine. I've had cats growing up, but I was little, so this is really the first experience I've had with cats.
She's not the sweetest cat, but she's a good cat. She gets easily stressed out, but primarily keeps to herself and likes to be left alone and watch me and my boyfriend just kind of do our own thing. She's been fine and everything was going well up until I found this blind kitten outside who seriously needed help. After a surgery and a lot of TLC and keeping the cats away from each other, the new cat, Biscuit, is better than ever.
I have tried introducing them several times, but here's where the problem comes in. Abbie likes her space, but Biscuit is completely in love with Abbie. I don't know if maybe because he's blind he can't sense her tone or whatever, but he just likes to get in her face and play with her. Obviously that's not okay with Abbie who will growl and hiss and swat at him. She'll get completely stressed out and will even run from him (of course that's a game, so Biscuit will chase her).
I'm nervous to let them just kind of work it out since everything I've read tells me not to let them do that. I've seen several tips, such as letting them play with their own toys in a room together, but just the sight of Biscuit will send Abbie at least to the point where she starts growling at him. Of course the growling only make Biscuit want to go play with her and the cycle continues. Do you guys have any tips for me? I've thought about getting those shelves so that Abbie can climb around him and not be stuck on the floor with him, but I'm in an apartment and am not allowed to make that many holes in the walls. Any advice that you guys can give me would be helpful! As as said at the start, I've never really dealt with this kind of thing before. Cats are really new to me.
She's not the sweetest cat, but she's a good cat. She gets easily stressed out, but primarily keeps to herself and likes to be left alone and watch me and my boyfriend just kind of do our own thing. She's been fine and everything was going well up until I found this blind kitten outside who seriously needed help. After a surgery and a lot of TLC and keeping the cats away from each other, the new cat, Biscuit, is better than ever.
I have tried introducing them several times, but here's where the problem comes in. Abbie likes her space, but Biscuit is completely in love with Abbie. I don't know if maybe because he's blind he can't sense her tone or whatever, but he just likes to get in her face and play with her. Obviously that's not okay with Abbie who will growl and hiss and swat at him. She'll get completely stressed out and will even run from him (of course that's a game, so Biscuit will chase her).
I'm nervous to let them just kind of work it out since everything I've read tells me not to let them do that. I've seen several tips, such as letting them play with their own toys in a room together, but just the sight of Biscuit will send Abbie at least to the point where she starts growling at him. Of course the growling only make Biscuit want to go play with her and the cycle continues. Do you guys have any tips for me? I've thought about getting those shelves so that Abbie can climb around him and not be stuck on the floor with him, but I'm in an apartment and am not allowed to make that many holes in the walls. Any advice that you guys can give me would be helpful! As as said at the start, I've never really dealt with this kind of thing before. Cats are really new to me.