Hello all!
As the title says, I have a male cat trying to hump/rape my female.
I have two cats, both adults, both neutered when they were adults because they were strays.
My male is not impressed by anything. When we got him, he started humping whatever he could find: blankets, sweaters, ours arms...Until he got a stuffed toy and now he humps it at least once a day. He probably likes the feeling because it's been three year and he never stopped.
But I adopted a female. She is really sweet and not nervous and she is social towards him. Sometimes she tries to play with him but it always ends up in screaming and hissing.
He tries to grab her neck almost everytime she comes close to him. He meows in a very specific way, the same way he does before humping his toy. Sometimes she walks away calmly sometimes he manages to climb on her and try to hump her and she turns around and they wrestle while the male screams and the female growls and hiss.
She has scabs on her neck and she refuses to play with him now because he is too rough. They don't always fight and she eats first and they even sleeps next to each other until the male tries to rape her in the middle of the night....But during the day she often stay away from us because when he hears her coming towards us, he hides and get all excited to jump on her.
I feel awful for her.
I have a couple of ideas to try to help and I'd like I have opinions...
1- I bring him to the vet and ask if they have some sort of drugs or injection to calm him down ( they even inject progesterone)
2- I take away his stuffed dog and split them when he tries to rape her..
3- I get another cat, propaby male, with high energy and hope to get my cat tired to the point where he won't feel like raping the female....( He lived with a foster male kitten for a while and they played well, without hissing and humping)
4- I rehome the female...Which would break my heart...
I know that's a lot to read, sorry. But we need help....
Thank you, from me, Teddy and Winnie.
As the title says, I have a male cat trying to hump/rape my female.
I have two cats, both adults, both neutered when they were adults because they were strays.
My male is not impressed by anything. When we got him, he started humping whatever he could find: blankets, sweaters, ours arms...Until he got a stuffed toy and now he humps it at least once a day. He probably likes the feeling because it's been three year and he never stopped.
But I adopted a female. She is really sweet and not nervous and she is social towards him. Sometimes she tries to play with him but it always ends up in screaming and hissing.
He tries to grab her neck almost everytime she comes close to him. He meows in a very specific way, the same way he does before humping his toy. Sometimes she walks away calmly sometimes he manages to climb on her and try to hump her and she turns around and they wrestle while the male screams and the female growls and hiss.
She has scabs on her neck and she refuses to play with him now because he is too rough. They don't always fight and she eats first and they even sleeps next to each other until the male tries to rape her in the middle of the night....But during the day she often stay away from us because when he hears her coming towards us, he hides and get all excited to jump on her.
I feel awful for her.
I have a couple of ideas to try to help and I'd like I have opinions...
1- I bring him to the vet and ask if they have some sort of drugs or injection to calm him down ( they even inject progesterone)
2- I take away his stuffed dog and split them when he tries to rape her..
3- I get another cat, propaby male, with high energy and hope to get my cat tired to the point where he won't feel like raping the female....( He lived with a foster male kitten for a while and they played well, without hissing and humping)
4- I rehome the female...Which would break my heart...
I know that's a lot to read, sorry. But we need help....
Thank you, from me, Teddy and Winnie.