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Hey guys! I noticed there are a lot of people of people with similar issues, but (and this has happened before) none of the answers seem to apply to my kitten...
She's around 4 months and she's been acting up lately, I'm not sure why. But the worst is the meowing at night... I live in a flat and I'm afraid the other tenants will start complaining as well. But here's the thing, I tried pretty much everything I saw online so far and NOTHING works. I'm sleep-deprived, tired, frustrated, and so is my boyfriend.... So here's the main picture:
She's not allowed in the room, because we are both allergic to cats. Both our doctor and the veterinary do advice us to keep her away from the bedroom. She meows, extremely loud, especially considering her size, and for HOURS. I'm not even joking... Sometimes she gives up after a couple of minutes, but more than once she meowed non-stop for 1 HOUR AND 20 MINUTES. I was inside the bedroom crying out of frustration. Sometimes, this happens 7 times a night. So as you can imagine, we barely have any sleep in between meowing sessions. And the nights she meows the least, it's still three to four sessions. So... Not even those nights make up for lost sleep. From the solutions I saw online, here's what I have to say:
- Just let her in: This is the most common one I saw. Not an option, medically advised to do the exact opposite. Plus I really think she's already way to spoiled and I certainly don't accept to put mine and my boyfriend's health at risk for the cat's luxury.
- She might be sick: She goes to the veterinary more often than I go to the doctors. I already explained this to the vet and she said she has no clue what is going on and she's perfectly, completely healthy.
- She's hungry: Fresh water every morning and every night. The dry food is always there also. I tried giving her wet food just before bed to see if the full stomach makes her sleepy, but nothing stops her from meowing.
- She's bored: I also saw a lot of people saying to tire her out before sleep and it's impossible. We play a lot with her. A LOT. That is another problem we are having... She now also meows for attention, for us to play with her. She can play for an hour straight and still meow that she wants more. And next time she's awake, she'll want to play for HOURS, again. We simply don't have the time to spend every waking hour with her giving her attention, but she's acting like we must. We played for sooooo long last night, she wasn't even getting up anymore. She was just laying there. And still, she meowed upset when we decided to stop. And during the night, she came LAY DOWN at our bedroom door and meow laying down. Not to mention that she has tons, TONS of toys just laying around to play with.
- Ignore her: We've doing that since we got her, because the vet told us right away she would probably start meowing at the closed door. It's been four months, no avail. She actually got worse in the last two weeks, those have been hell. We've started ignoring her as well when she meows during the day to play or to be petted, and she starting misbehaving in ways she never did before, just to get a reaction out of us. That includes biting, scratching, us and other things she never even touched before!
- Feliway: The miraculous spray is not available in my country...
The apartment is very small, I can't lock her anywhere (the only other place besides the bedroom with a door is the bathroom, and it's not big enough to fit her litter box there), nor can I fit a crate to teach her that bedtime is quiet time.
I work from home and I have to be here, almost 24/7 and it's starting to kill me. The meowing happens day and night, and sometimes she's in my lap getting petted and she will still meow because she wants me to look at her. I have to stand there and look. at. her. I love her but this is truly driving me mad. The noise is constant, and so are the problems. She's constantly, constantly asking for attention, and when we ignore her she makes sure to show us that she's there. I'm going crazy, me especially because I spend entire days locked in here with her, but I have to work. I truly love her, but I am honestly starting to resent her... She has everything a happy kitten could want, but she keeps wanting more....
Please, for the love of god, what can I do? If the neighbors start to complain to the landlord I will be forced to give her away, because of the building's policy... Moving is, of course, also not an option for us.
She's around 4 months and she's been acting up lately, I'm not sure why. But the worst is the meowing at night... I live in a flat and I'm afraid the other tenants will start complaining as well. But here's the thing, I tried pretty much everything I saw online so far and NOTHING works. I'm sleep-deprived, tired, frustrated, and so is my boyfriend.... So here's the main picture:
She's not allowed in the room, because we are both allergic to cats. Both our doctor and the veterinary do advice us to keep her away from the bedroom. She meows, extremely loud, especially considering her size, and for HOURS. I'm not even joking... Sometimes she gives up after a couple of minutes, but more than once she meowed non-stop for 1 HOUR AND 20 MINUTES. I was inside the bedroom crying out of frustration. Sometimes, this happens 7 times a night. So as you can imagine, we barely have any sleep in between meowing sessions. And the nights she meows the least, it's still three to four sessions. So... Not even those nights make up for lost sleep. From the solutions I saw online, here's what I have to say:
- Just let her in: This is the most common one I saw. Not an option, medically advised to do the exact opposite. Plus I really think she's already way to spoiled and I certainly don't accept to put mine and my boyfriend's health at risk for the cat's luxury.
- She might be sick: She goes to the veterinary more often than I go to the doctors. I already explained this to the vet and she said she has no clue what is going on and she's perfectly, completely healthy.
- She's hungry: Fresh water every morning and every night. The dry food is always there also. I tried giving her wet food just before bed to see if the full stomach makes her sleepy, but nothing stops her from meowing.
- She's bored: I also saw a lot of people saying to tire her out before sleep and it's impossible. We play a lot with her. A LOT. That is another problem we are having... She now also meows for attention, for us to play with her. She can play for an hour straight and still meow that she wants more. And next time she's awake, she'll want to play for HOURS, again. We simply don't have the time to spend every waking hour with her giving her attention, but she's acting like we must. We played for sooooo long last night, she wasn't even getting up anymore. She was just laying there. And still, she meowed upset when we decided to stop. And during the night, she came LAY DOWN at our bedroom door and meow laying down. Not to mention that she has tons, TONS of toys just laying around to play with.
- Ignore her: We've doing that since we got her, because the vet told us right away she would probably start meowing at the closed door. It's been four months, no avail. She actually got worse in the last two weeks, those have been hell. We've started ignoring her as well when she meows during the day to play or to be petted, and she starting misbehaving in ways she never did before, just to get a reaction out of us. That includes biting, scratching, us and other things she never even touched before!
- Feliway: The miraculous spray is not available in my country...
The apartment is very small, I can't lock her anywhere (the only other place besides the bedroom with a door is the bathroom, and it's not big enough to fit her litter box there), nor can I fit a crate to teach her that bedtime is quiet time.
I work from home and I have to be here, almost 24/7 and it's starting to kill me. The meowing happens day and night, and sometimes she's in my lap getting petted and she will still meow because she wants me to look at her. I have to stand there and look. at. her. I love her but this is truly driving me mad. The noise is constant, and so are the problems. She's constantly, constantly asking for attention, and when we ignore her she makes sure to show us that she's there. I'm going crazy, me especially because I spend entire days locked in here with her, but I have to work. I truly love her, but I am honestly starting to resent her... She has everything a happy kitten could want, but she keeps wanting more....
Please, for the love of god, what can I do? If the neighbors start to complain to the landlord I will be forced to give her away, because of the building's policy... Moving is, of course, also not an option for us.