The "What's on your mind?" Thread -2017

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Yep, it was the job he just got.  We're praying they'll call him to go back when they get the new side of the factory up and running.  They were on a big hiring spree in expectation of it and it would be fully operational now if not for the whole murder thing.  I mean, common sense would say that they would call back the people they laid off instead of spending even more money training brand new people, right?
A machine shop around where I live laid off everyone off two days before Christmas. They called almost everyone back on the 5th and brought them back to work. They just were working to save the business by not paying everyone holiday pay and paying Christmas bonuses and everything else. 
 

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Everyone they laid off was scheduled to work on Christmas and New Year's.  Company policy was to pay holiday pay to everyone who was scheduled on a holiday, even though the factory was closed.  So I would bet that's why they chose the people they chose.

The factory is doing fine.  Or it was.  That's why they were expanding.  And the expansion probably would have been finished by now if the supervisor hadn't shot his wife in the head in the hotel parking lot in front of the people who were here from Germany and Wisconsin (I think it was Wisconsin) building the machines.  Talk about unintended consequences.  May his wife rest in peace and may he rot in prison.
 

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I'm currently feeling like crap and it's my own fault.  We were having ice cream cake for Aislyn's birthday today.  Her birthday is December 28, so we're a little late, but she's a kid - she doesn't understand the concept of the calendar.  Well, we were supposed to be at his aunt's at 4.  I got busy today and hadn't eaten dinner before going over there.  Well, another aunt was running late and didn't get there til around 4:30.  I'm hypoglycemic and I usually have to eat right away when I start feeling hungry.  I was too shy to say anything so I was at the point where I was feeling weak when we got to the ice cream cake.  My body hates me, so if I raise my sugar too quickly, I spend the rest of the night feeling icky, exhausted, and headachy.  Not to mention, John's aunt's like to talk.  So we didn't get home until almost 9 and by the time I got real food in me (as in, not super sugary), I was all messed up. 
 

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He spoke flawless English.  I'm betting he grew up here.  School must have been TORTURE.

Poor Pretzel!

Oddly enough, spinach has always been one of my favorite foods.  I ate it quite often when I was a kid.  Still got loads of nosebleeds.
That is a perfectly honorable name in Vietnamese. Dong is the family name and Wang is the given name. He was probably born in Vietnam and was brought here when very small, thus no accent. These days children are much more tolerant of weird or unfamiliar names but may not have been then.  Too bad that Americans find humor in other peoples' language. Case in point: I had wanted to name my second son "Friedrich" , a good German name that would have pleased my parents and which I really liked. Then I thought what American kids would make off that:  "Fried Rich". So I named him Michael instead with the German pronunciation "Mi-kha-el" and called him "Misha". His teachers were happy with that as there were 3  Michael Evans in his class, one went by Mike and another by Mickey, so Misha was just fine. He has now legally changed his name to Misha as nobody knows him by his given name and he would not react if someone called him that.
 

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My initial urge to giggle was definitely an "immature teenage boy" reaction.  But I would never tease anyone about his/her name.  Unless he/she started it.  I had a friend named DJ Dick.  She cracked jokes about her name all day long.
 

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Oh, my.  You're right; that's a horrible thing to do to a child, though I doubt his parents were thinking in those terms.  It's probably a family name.  I'm glad you managed to restrain your laughter; that really would have been unprofessional.

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That is a perfectly honorable name in Vietnamese. Dong is the family name and Wang is the given name. He was probably born in Vietnam and was brought here when very small, thus no accent. These days children are much more tolerant of weird or unfamiliar names but may not have been then.  Too bad that Americans find humor in other peoples' language. Case in point: I had wanted to name my second son "Friedrich" , a good German name that would have pleased my parents and which I really liked. Then I thought what American kids would make off that:  "Fried Rich". So I named him Michael instead with the German pronunciation "Mi-kha-el" and called him "Misha". His teachers were happy with that as there were 3  Michael Evans in his class, one went by Mike and another by Mickey, so Misha was just fine. He has now legally changed his name to Misha as nobody knows him by his given name and he would not react if someone called him that.
I never doubted it, though I didn't know enough to recognize it as Vietnamese.  I was simply thinking in terms of what American children would do to it.

This is one of the things I hold against Jay Leno (though he certainly didn't start it).  In his otherwise excellent "Headlines" segment he regularly made fun of people in wedding announcements who happened to have last names that could be put together to make a double entendre.  He was also very much into fat shaming, and inclined to make fun of women for their looks.  And as for the fat shaming, people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.  I was surprised that no one publicly called him out on that.

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I never watched him much, his way of talking went on my nerves and I did not stay up that late as I had to get up at 5:30 then. I guess I didn't miss much knowing how he talked. And yes, people in glass houses and all that. I wish Trump would take that to heart and stop talking about people's looks, his own are nothing to brag about. But let's not get into that, it belongs on another thread that I don't comment on and hardly look at.
 

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~ What's on my mind ... besides feeling like a full-time cat sitter ! I have been thinking about selling a rental property I own in Florida. So far I have been lucky as an out of state landlord. Hurricane Katrina almost changed all that! Again I got lucky as the storm passed far out at sea - but hit inland hard in NE Florida and people lost their homes. Sad ...
Properly values are going up and I would make some '$' if I sold now. What to do ... ?
 

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There are real "problem scratchers" among cats! Declawing is illegal in Germany, and my husband and I have never had a cat that we couldn't offer good alternatives to. The shelter cats don't do much damage in their cat rooms. Right now I'm pet sitting two cats and a bunny, and you should see the apartment walls. There's not a single surface that isn't all scratched up, although the owner has only been in there a year and has so many vertical, horizontal and slanted scratchers in every conceivable material. Even her rugs are giant scratching mats. She got him from a shelter; he was surrendered due to inappropriate scratching. He won't let her clip his nails or apply Soft Paws.

She just figures she's going to have to spend a fortune renovating when she moves out.
 

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I disagree with declawing under any circumstance.  It's unfortunate that kitty likes to scratch so much, but maybe there's a solution she hasn't tried yet.  Even if there isn't, amputation wouldn't be right.  I wish declawing was illegal everywhere.  I would rather let my cats scratch up everything I have than cut off their toes.
 

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~ What's on my mind ... besides feeling like a full-time cat sitter ! I have been thinking about selling a rental property I own in Florida. So far I have been lucky as an out of state landlord. Hurricane Katrina almost changed all that! Again I got lucky as the storm passed far out at sea - but hit inland hard in NE Florida and people lost their homes. Sad ...
Properly values are going up and I would make some '$' if I sold now. What to do ... ?
Why are you thinking of selling?  Is it just the potential impact of any hurricanes that might come roaring through?   As to feeling like a full-time cat sitter:  isn't that your sole purpose in life?  

There are real "problem scratchers" among cats! Declawing is illegal in Germany, and my husband and I have never had a cat that we couldn't offer good alternatives to. The shelter cats don't do much damage in their cat rooms. Right now I'm pet sitting two cats and a bunny, and you should see the apartment walls. There's not a single surface that isn't all scratched up, although the owner has only been in there a year and has so many vertical, horizontal and slanted scratchers in every conceivable material. Even her rugs are giant scratching mats. She got him from a shelter; he was surrendered due to inappropriate scratching. He won't let her clip his nails or apply Soft Paws.

She just figures she's going to have to spend a fortune renovating when she moves out.
Now that's someone who understands the meaning  of the word "commitment."   I wish more people felt like that.   
 

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I admire people who stick with it for the long haul-Honeybee doesn't let me cut her nails so I have the vet techs do it-she shakes and is shy for them but for me I get bitten. sigh.

I woke up with a warm bundle of purring mass on my chest this morning. Couldn't figure out why I was hot and sweaty-Honeybee must have gotten cold last night.

worked a long day yesterday and missed a meeting I was supposed to attend but I didn't want to pass up overtime. Too bad it isn't during the week after work so I won't have to give up overtime.

I got home at 7 and cooked up the meat I bought the other night-made shepards pie with real potatoes but those I just nuked. It came out good and I used a packet of onion mix for a bit of flavor. baked it in my 3 quart huge dish, came out yummy..gonna eat that up in a few minutes for break.

this morning was cold and crisp at 1 degree. It feels weird how we went from 60 to right down to 20 or less. so cold lately!
 

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Yep, it was the job he just got.  We're praying they'll call him to go back when they get the new side of the factory up and running.  They were on a big hiring spree in expectation of it and it would be fully operational now if not for the whole murder thing.  I mean, common sense would say that they would call back the people they laid off instead of spending even more money training brand new people, right?
I hope you don't mind, but I talked to AWM about it, and this is what she said; they probably won't call him back until after the trial is over, as he's a key witness and might have to testify, making him unavailable for work for long periods of time. That there's nothing stopping him from quitting one job if the company decides they want to rehire him after all, and that--before he takes any jobs--he should see if the pay and benefits are better than those he'd get on unemployment.

Once again, I was just trying to help when I talked to AWM about it. 
 
My initial urge to giggle was definitely an "immature teenage boy" reaction.  But I would never tease anyone about his/her name.  Unless he/she started it.  I had a friend named DJ Dick.  She cracked jokes about her name all day long.
I had a lot of problems with kids making fun of my name in elementary school. (By the way, my name's not really Tallyollyopia, I just like the way it sounds and it's a user name almost no one else uses.) My real name is really common and there are, quite literally three  other women who use my bank with the same exact (first middle and last) name I have. Point is--if kids want to make another kid's life horrible, they'll find a way to do it.
 

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Taking a quick lunch at work and browsing the internal job openings. The department I was previously in has a open position on one of the technical teams. I'm on the fence about applying for it. I know I am qualified for the position and I know many of the people on that team. Do you think it would be strange / weird to apply less than a year after leaving the department? People assume that I left because I wanted to work in a lab setting, which is not true. I left because the team I was on became an environment I could no longer work in (no respect or appreciation, constant drama, among other issues). I posted a bit here about why I'm looking to leave my current job here. Do you think it would be ok to invite the hiring manager (my previous manger) to a meeting to informally discuss the open position before deciding to formally apply for the position or not?


I also looked around a few other external web site for jobs and a few seem interesting but they're in academia or non-profits which means the pay will be nowhere near what I'm currently getting paid.
 

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There are real "problem scratchers" among cats! Declawing is illegal in Germany, and my husband and I have never had a cat that we couldn't offer good alternatives to. The shelter cats don't do much damage in their cat rooms. Right now I'm pet sitting two cats and a bunny, and you should see the apartment walls. There's not a single surface that isn't all scratched up, although the owner has only been in there a year and has so many vertical, horizontal and slanted scratchers in every conceivable material. Even her rugs are giant scratching mats. She got him from a shelter; he was surrendered due to inappropriate scratching. He won't let her clip his nails or apply Soft Paws.

She just figures she's going to have to spend a fortune renovating when she moves out.
A dose of chamomile tea might relax him enough to get the Soft Paws on.
 

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I hope you don't mind, but I talked to AWM about it, and this is what she said; they probably won't call him back until after the trial is over, as he's a key witness and might have to testify, making him unavailable for work for long periods of time. That there's nothing stopping him from quitting one job if the company decides they want to rehire him after all, and that--before he takes any jobs--he should see if the pay and benefits are better than those he'd get on unemployment.

Once again, I was just trying to help when I talked to AWM about it. 

I had a lot of problems with kids making fun of my name in elementary school. (By the way, my name's not really Tallyollyopia, I just like the way it sounds and it's a user name almost no one else uses.) My real name is really common and there are, quite literally three  other women who use my bank with the same exact (first middle and last) name I have. Point is--if kids want to make another kid's life horrible, they'll find a way to do it.
John didn't witness it.  He knew the guy who did it - he was his supervisor - but he didn't see the murder.  The men who were here building the machinery saw it.  And the guy turned himself in a couple hours later.  And I never mind people talking to other people about advice for me.  LOL

I was picked on mercilessly my whole life.  If it wasn't about my glasses, it was my clothes because we were poor and shopped at Wal*Mart.  One kid ticked me off enough to meet my fist on the school bus.  The bus driver went to my church and was my grandma's best friend and was conveniently looking the other direction.  Needless to say, that brat never messed with me again.  Then I became a bookworm and the rest of the world disappeared.  I'm sure they teased me about that, too, but I didn't hear it.
 
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John didn't witness it.  He knew the guy who did it - he was his supervisor - but he didn't see the murder.  The men who were here building the machinery saw it.  And the guy turned himself in a couple hours later.  And I never mind people talking to other people about advice for me.  LOL

I was picked on mercilessly my whole life.  If it wasn't about my glasses, it was my clothes because we were poor and shopped at Wal*Mart.  One kid ticked me off enough to meet my fist on the school bus.  The bus driver went to my church and was my grandma's best friend and was conveniently looking the other direction.  Needless to say, that brat never messed with me again.  Then I became a bookworm and the rest of the world disappeared.  I'm sure they teased me about that, too, but I didn't hear it.
I must have misunderstood something in a previous post. Sorry about that.

I remember reading someone asking why the surgery got moved up--he wanted it to and the surgery had an earlier opening. 
 (Maybe he felt needled by my subtle hints about physical therapy. Who knows?)

It is so cold! It didn't get above freezing all day, and it's only supposed to get colder this evening while working. (Wouldn't be so bad, except the heat's not working at work!) If I wanted to live in temperatures like this I wouldn't live in the South!
 

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Hope springs eternal! (But is frequently blocked by dirt, trees, and other debris...)

Okay, this is disgusting but I have to tell it anyway. This morning, after work, I went to Wal-Mart, because I was going to get a short grocery list of items--including cat food and fresh fruit (I think I'm coming down with a cold and I'm trying to nip it in the bud.) So I went to get some clementines, because they're good for sore throats (I don't know if the vitamin C is good for colds or not, but orange juice does help and clementines are smaller oranges), and as I approached them a cloud of fruit flies wafted into the air. Fruit flies!  I wasn't about to get anything from the produce section after that and got a bottle of orange juice instead. So, Wal-Mart shoppers--beware!
 

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Spent the weekend working on getting some things packed. It looks like we'll be moving on the 21st or so. If anyone has any advice for how to help my cats during the moving process, I'd love if you looked at my thread in the behavior section. 


The cats have been having a blast using piles of boxes as a jungle gym. 
 
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