because something even more deadly is growing at TCS, and if we don't all decide to kill this "bacteria" in its early stages it will grow and multiply from "inflamed" to "infected" to "gangrenous"!
Believe me when I say I have been uneasy for the last week; pondering whether or not to make this post. Finally I realized that I HAD to say what I feel. I do not intend the things that follow be directed at any one person; but if you see yourself(to any degree) in this thread then it is time to ask, "Am I part of the problem; and how can I start to be a part of the solution.
I joined this site because it was a forum for cat lovers. A place to share information, ask advice, and most of all have good, stimulating conversation.
I did not join TCS to act like high school "locker room popularity" junkies; who have to constantly reassure themselves of who their "bestest bud" is or whether they have more COOL FRIENDS in their "possee" who all think the same, dress the same, eat the same and are continually Happy, "Happy", HAPPY! (or any of the other 7 dwarfs)
I thought we were off to a pretty good start with threads like Stem Cell Research, Books, Books, Books, and Movie and video critiques, etc. The later contraversial threads on Relationships and Piercings and Tattoos also had their great moments.
No one enjoys welcoming New Members more than I!!! OR joining in on a congra(d)tulatory "Cyber Party"!! If this were the only reason for this Site to be in exhistence; then you would find me at the front of the line(in a bad, back vented gown) waiting for my frontal lobotomy!
Seriously, I am so glad that people with opinions, who read the daily news and watch tv or go to movies, and hold down full time jobs or stay at home to raise families or are retired(been there done that) and have lives outside TCS take the time to come online and enrich my life with their experiences! And, that these same people allow me the privledge of sharing my stories and opinions. . . .
THANK YOU ALL SO VERY MUCH !
We now see a whole new generation of young members(like KittyLove and LilGreenKat to name only two) who have joined TCS because they found us "interesting" and "fun" and "educational". Let's not ruin their enjoyment by weilding slings and arrows at each other's personalities. I want there to be a Cat Site for them to come to well into the future!
I, for one miss Mr.Cat and MeowMan and others who are no longer around as frequently. I know that their self-imposed sabaticals are due in
part to how their opinions were received. Perhaps if we sart to show them the inkling of improvement; they will return.
You all know that TCS is Anne's gift to us. By that I mean, that she sticks with it thru thick and thin so that we have a place to come to meet with friends(old and new). The extra power that Anne had to buy recently to meet our needs and the laptop she and Alpha obtained so she could stay with us; were not FREE. Who do you think paid for it or "floated a loan" to obtain the improvements? Unless some filthy rich member passed and left an endowment that I don't know about; my guess would be Anne and Alpha. And how do we repay her? I hope not by continuing to "feed" this cancer that threatens our Site!
As always, I have grown long-winded.(I always do when the subject matter is something I am "passionate" about). As I said early on; I did not start this thread to single anyone out. (or will I) I will accept my share of blame for letting this "virus" go this far, and I will also try to be part of a solution. I am looking forward to any (and all) ideas on where we can go from here so TCS will be around for that 1,000,000th post!
Believe me when I say I have been uneasy for the last week; pondering whether or not to make this post. Finally I realized that I HAD to say what I feel. I do not intend the things that follow be directed at any one person; but if you see yourself(to any degree) in this thread then it is time to ask, "Am I part of the problem; and how can I start to be a part of the solution.
I joined this site because it was a forum for cat lovers. A place to share information, ask advice, and most of all have good, stimulating conversation.
I did not join TCS to act like high school "locker room popularity" junkies; who have to constantly reassure themselves of who their "bestest bud" is or whether they have more COOL FRIENDS in their "possee" who all think the same, dress the same, eat the same and are continually Happy, "Happy", HAPPY! (or any of the other 7 dwarfs)
I thought we were off to a pretty good start with threads like Stem Cell Research, Books, Books, Books, and Movie and video critiques, etc. The later contraversial threads on Relationships and Piercings and Tattoos also had their great moments.
No one enjoys welcoming New Members more than I!!! OR joining in on a congra(d)tulatory "Cyber Party"!! If this were the only reason for this Site to be in exhistence; then you would find me at the front of the line(in a bad, back vented gown) waiting for my frontal lobotomy!
Seriously, I am so glad that people with opinions, who read the daily news and watch tv or go to movies, and hold down full time jobs or stay at home to raise families or are retired(been there done that) and have lives outside TCS take the time to come online and enrich my life with their experiences! And, that these same people allow me the privledge of sharing my stories and opinions. . . .
THANK YOU ALL SO VERY MUCH !
We now see a whole new generation of young members(like KittyLove and LilGreenKat to name only two) who have joined TCS because they found us "interesting" and "fun" and "educational". Let's not ruin their enjoyment by weilding slings and arrows at each other's personalities. I want there to be a Cat Site for them to come to well into the future!
I, for one miss Mr.Cat and MeowMan and others who are no longer around as frequently. I know that their self-imposed sabaticals are due in
part to how their opinions were received. Perhaps if we sart to show them the inkling of improvement; they will return.
You all know that TCS is Anne's gift to us. By that I mean, that she sticks with it thru thick and thin so that we have a place to come to meet with friends(old and new). The extra power that Anne had to buy recently to meet our needs and the laptop she and Alpha obtained so she could stay with us; were not FREE. Who do you think paid for it or "floated a loan" to obtain the improvements? Unless some filthy rich member passed and left an endowment that I don't know about; my guess would be Anne and Alpha. And how do we repay her? I hope not by continuing to "feed" this cancer that threatens our Site!
As always, I have grown long-winded.(I always do when the subject matter is something I am "passionate" about). As I said early on; I did not start this thread to single anyone out. (or will I) I will accept my share of blame for letting this "virus" go this far, and I will also try to be part of a solution. I am looking forward to any (and all) ideas on where we can go from here so TCS will be around for that 1,000,000th post!