Dear Kitty James,
I lost you 5 months ago yesterday (7/14/16) and I still miss you terribly. I don't know why I'm writing this except perhaps that it is slightly therapeutic and I think your story needs to be told. But I still feel like the house is missing a very important someone. I still look for you unintentionally in your usual spots, the clothes cabinet, the towel shelf, the kitchen window ledge, and your favorite spot on the back of the couch. Up until a few nights ago I was still finding the occasional rogue whisker or nail sheath in your more remote hiding spots. Each time brings a tear to my eye. I visit your grave often and talk to you. I wonder if you can hear me from beyond and I hope God explained to you why I had to do what I did. I simply could not bear the pain of watching you suffer any more. I didn't want you to go down that road so I chose to end your pain when you started to show signs of labored breathing. The cancer you had was fast and insidious and both your regular vet and the critical care vets we saw assured me there was no hope for recovery. Trust me it was the hardest thing I've ever had to do. Period.
I still haven't removed your kitty bed, nor have I removed your bowls. They sit now as a monument to your greatness and it's adorned with your collars, toys, and photos. The vets office wrote a lovely card and all the vets wrote a little bit about how much they liked treating you. Dr. Iafe described you as a kind and gentle soul, I couldn't agree more. I wish I had longer to spend with you. We met when you were already 5 and I often wonder what your first 5 years were like before I found you in that cage at the shelter, and knew that you deserved so much better. I had hoped that I would see you well into old age, but fate had another plan...
Well, my Handsome man, I'm at work now buddy and I cant be sitting here crying at my desk so I'll wrap this up. Please watch over us and don't be a stranger. It would bring me comfort to know your soul looks in on us from time to time. Perhaps your spirit can visit here and there, if so you'll see that we still hung up your stocking this year. I wish you were here to bat ornaments off the Christmas Tree and to receive your annual pile of Christmas treats and toys. When I really miss you, one of the videos I watch is you playing with a catnip toy on Christmas morning 2014. It always makes me smile. Your brother is so lonely now James, I wish you two were still together but I know he would only want the best for you. You were a good big brother to Charles and he learned well from your example....even if he is a Dog, but he acts like a cat, and that's a piece of you that lives on....The girls miss you too... and it should go without saying that I've lost my best friend in the universe. Because you were....
Please forgive me for what I had to do. My guilt is crippling and I still cannot bare to recall that night in my memory. I think about you daily and pray for you just as often. I also pray that Ill see you again when my time comes to shrug off this mortal coil, and I get the big pink shot. I hope there's a warm spot in the sun, and a soft lap in heaven just for you with endless pets and treats and a fun paradise to run around and chase mice and moths and kitty toys until I get there to meet you. Then we'll never be apart again. Say hello to Emmett and Sinbad and the gang for me.
I Love You Bubba.
Forever and a day, your faithful human,
~ Dad <3
<<<James Donald Kitty (2004 - 2016)>>>
Humans, if your kitty gets a cough, don't just take the scrip for prednisolone and hope it'll go away. Make them do an X-ray and make sure an oncologist or qualified radiologist reads it. It very well MAY BE just some lung inflammation but Carcinoma is brutally fast and malignant and it will take your healthy friend and render them too ill to carry on in a shockingly short time. James was 11 and a half... diagnosed on 7/1 and gone by 7/14.....
He was just 11 YEARS OLD!!!
The organ cancers surface often between ages 10 and 12 and there is little that can be done if it isn't caught VERY early. If my brutally painful experience can do anything positive, then perhaps I'd like it to spare someone else from my current broken heart. Don't pooh-pooh a persistent cough. And if the Xray comes back and there's ANY sign of nodular growth or polyps, consult an oncologist. I'd rather have paid thousands and not needed it than to have trusted that it was just chronic bronchitis and been wrong. Which I was.... Humans get cancer screenings, why shouldn't our little fur children get them? I sure wish I had done so now... Be well everyone...
I lost you 5 months ago yesterday (7/14/16) and I still miss you terribly. I don't know why I'm writing this except perhaps that it is slightly therapeutic and I think your story needs to be told. But I still feel like the house is missing a very important someone. I still look for you unintentionally in your usual spots, the clothes cabinet, the towel shelf, the kitchen window ledge, and your favorite spot on the back of the couch. Up until a few nights ago I was still finding the occasional rogue whisker or nail sheath in your more remote hiding spots. Each time brings a tear to my eye. I visit your grave often and talk to you. I wonder if you can hear me from beyond and I hope God explained to you why I had to do what I did. I simply could not bear the pain of watching you suffer any more. I didn't want you to go down that road so I chose to end your pain when you started to show signs of labored breathing. The cancer you had was fast and insidious and both your regular vet and the critical care vets we saw assured me there was no hope for recovery. Trust me it was the hardest thing I've ever had to do. Period.
I still haven't removed your kitty bed, nor have I removed your bowls. They sit now as a monument to your greatness and it's adorned with your collars, toys, and photos. The vets office wrote a lovely card and all the vets wrote a little bit about how much they liked treating you. Dr. Iafe described you as a kind and gentle soul, I couldn't agree more. I wish I had longer to spend with you. We met when you were already 5 and I often wonder what your first 5 years were like before I found you in that cage at the shelter, and knew that you deserved so much better. I had hoped that I would see you well into old age, but fate had another plan...
Well, my Handsome man, I'm at work now buddy and I cant be sitting here crying at my desk so I'll wrap this up. Please watch over us and don't be a stranger. It would bring me comfort to know your soul looks in on us from time to time. Perhaps your spirit can visit here and there, if so you'll see that we still hung up your stocking this year. I wish you were here to bat ornaments off the Christmas Tree and to receive your annual pile of Christmas treats and toys. When I really miss you, one of the videos I watch is you playing with a catnip toy on Christmas morning 2014. It always makes me smile. Your brother is so lonely now James, I wish you two were still together but I know he would only want the best for you. You were a good big brother to Charles and he learned well from your example....even if he is a Dog, but he acts like a cat, and that's a piece of you that lives on....The girls miss you too... and it should go without saying that I've lost my best friend in the universe. Because you were....
Please forgive me for what I had to do. My guilt is crippling and I still cannot bare to recall that night in my memory. I think about you daily and pray for you just as often. I also pray that Ill see you again when my time comes to shrug off this mortal coil, and I get the big pink shot. I hope there's a warm spot in the sun, and a soft lap in heaven just for you with endless pets and treats and a fun paradise to run around and chase mice and moths and kitty toys until I get there to meet you. Then we'll never be apart again. Say hello to Emmett and Sinbad and the gang for me.
I Love You Bubba.
Forever and a day, your faithful human,
~ Dad <3
<<<James Donald Kitty (2004 - 2016)>>>
Humans, if your kitty gets a cough, don't just take the scrip for prednisolone and hope it'll go away. Make them do an X-ray and make sure an oncologist or qualified radiologist reads it. It very well MAY BE just some lung inflammation but Carcinoma is brutally fast and malignant and it will take your healthy friend and render them too ill to carry on in a shockingly short time. James was 11 and a half... diagnosed on 7/1 and gone by 7/14.....
He was just 11 YEARS OLD!!!
The organ cancers surface often between ages 10 and 12 and there is little that can be done if it isn't caught VERY early. If my brutally painful experience can do anything positive, then perhaps I'd like it to spare someone else from my current broken heart. Don't pooh-pooh a persistent cough. And if the Xray comes back and there's ANY sign of nodular growth or polyps, consult an oncologist. I'd rather have paid thousands and not needed it than to have trusted that it was just chronic bronchitis and been wrong. Which I was.... Humans get cancer screenings, why shouldn't our little fur children get them? I sure wish I had done so now... Be well everyone...