We got an email from my brother in law announcing that my father in law is getting married on the 20th.
Now, we hardly have any contact with him, except when he wants something from us. He is not Jake's biological father, just adopted him when he was 10 years old - we don't know the full story there either.
Anyways, we have never met the woman - we tried to contact him many times over the past year to the answer 'I am busy' - every time. So we thought, well let him contact us when he is not so busy. Jake heard from his brother that his father was getting married a few months ago and so Jake went to talk to him and he said that it wasn't true.
And then we get an email a few days ago that he indeed is getting married, less than two weeks away.
He knows where we live, he knows how to contact us. He has made no attempt to contact us, to introduce us to this woman.
Jake feels a bit insulted that he has to find out through his brother, and another man who works with his father. A little hurt, maybe. And also, it is such short notice.
He does not want to go, he does not feel comfortable going. There is so much history there, but I won't go into details.
My mother said it is understandable that Jake doesn't want to go to the wedding.
It would be nice to have some family around here who actually communicates with Jake, just to see how he is, and not when they want something.
Now, we hardly have any contact with him, except when he wants something from us. He is not Jake's biological father, just adopted him when he was 10 years old - we don't know the full story there either.
Anyways, we have never met the woman - we tried to contact him many times over the past year to the answer 'I am busy' - every time. So we thought, well let him contact us when he is not so busy. Jake heard from his brother that his father was getting married a few months ago and so Jake went to talk to him and he said that it wasn't true.
And then we get an email a few days ago that he indeed is getting married, less than two weeks away.
He knows where we live, he knows how to contact us. He has made no attempt to contact us, to introduce us to this woman.
Jake feels a bit insulted that he has to find out through his brother, and another man who works with his father. A little hurt, maybe. And also, it is such short notice.
He does not want to go, he does not feel comfortable going. There is so much history there, but I won't go into details.
My mother said it is understandable that Jake doesn't want to go to the wedding.
It would be nice to have some family around here who actually communicates with Jake, just to see how he is, and not when they want something.