Hi there,
So we got our new kitten 2 and a half weeks ago (Bella). She was already 4 months old when we got her. I have had my other cat (Ruby) since she was 2 months old and she is now 4 and a half years old.
Ruby has lived with another cat before, but he passed away when she was a few months shy of turning 2 years old. So Ruby has been an only cat for about 2 and a half years. She is a very "scardy" cat... I'd like to mention now that both cats have been indoor cats all of their lives - we take Ruby out on a harness. When we take Ruby out on her harness, a lot of the time she loves it but will stick close by us, but other times she smells something or see's one of the neighbourhood cats and gets really mad (hissing, growling, swiping at us). We have not had the chance to introduce Bella to the harness yet but she is not the one I am worried about.
Bella is a typical kitten that plays and sleeps all the time and she appears totally un-phased. We have a spare bedroom so we keep her in here, and she did not leave this room for the first week that we had her. We swapped their blankets back and forth for the first week as well. Then we left the door slightly ajar to Bella's room and let them smell each other - both cats hissed as we expected. Over the next week we introduced them more, we opened the door and let them just look at each other from a distance, then we played with both cats individually but with the door fully open, then again but closer, etc. etc...
We are now at the point where, as I speak, Bella and Ruby both have free roam of the whole house and I simply sit and observe so make sure no fights arise. They have slept on the same couch together (albeit on completely different ends of the couch) and have touched noses on a few occasions, however, Ruby my older cat gets very mad whenever myself or my partner will try to cuddle her. As SOON as the kitten is shut back in her bedroom (we do not let them be alone together, e.g. at nights or when we are out shopping etc) Ruby is back to normal and wants cuddles from us again.
Ruby has never been a very affectionate cat anyway, but she has gotten very moody with us since the kittens arrival. I realise it has only been two and a half weeks, and I can see that progress has been made, but I'm just worries that we made a really bad decision inviting a new kitten into our home because Ruby doesn't seem happy when the kitten is around!? She is also visibly jealous when we spend time with the kitten... She has only hissed once at the kitten so far today which was better than yesterday. And she seems to growl at me more than she does the kitten!
Sorry for the long story. I hope this makes sense. Is this introduction going well or not? I can't tell... Please feel free to ask for any more information if needed and all advice is much appreciated.
Thank you in advance,
ai1995
So we got our new kitten 2 and a half weeks ago (Bella). She was already 4 months old when we got her. I have had my other cat (Ruby) since she was 2 months old and she is now 4 and a half years old.
Ruby has lived with another cat before, but he passed away when she was a few months shy of turning 2 years old. So Ruby has been an only cat for about 2 and a half years. She is a very "scardy" cat... I'd like to mention now that both cats have been indoor cats all of their lives - we take Ruby out on a harness. When we take Ruby out on her harness, a lot of the time she loves it but will stick close by us, but other times she smells something or see's one of the neighbourhood cats and gets really mad (hissing, growling, swiping at us). We have not had the chance to introduce Bella to the harness yet but she is not the one I am worried about.
Bella is a typical kitten that plays and sleeps all the time and she appears totally un-phased. We have a spare bedroom so we keep her in here, and she did not leave this room for the first week that we had her. We swapped their blankets back and forth for the first week as well. Then we left the door slightly ajar to Bella's room and let them smell each other - both cats hissed as we expected. Over the next week we introduced them more, we opened the door and let them just look at each other from a distance, then we played with both cats individually but with the door fully open, then again but closer, etc. etc...
We are now at the point where, as I speak, Bella and Ruby both have free roam of the whole house and I simply sit and observe so make sure no fights arise. They have slept on the same couch together (albeit on completely different ends of the couch) and have touched noses on a few occasions, however, Ruby my older cat gets very mad whenever myself or my partner will try to cuddle her. As SOON as the kitten is shut back in her bedroom (we do not let them be alone together, e.g. at nights or when we are out shopping etc) Ruby is back to normal and wants cuddles from us again.
Ruby has never been a very affectionate cat anyway, but she has gotten very moody with us since the kittens arrival. I realise it has only been two and a half weeks, and I can see that progress has been made, but I'm just worries that we made a really bad decision inviting a new kitten into our home because Ruby doesn't seem happy when the kitten is around!? She is also visibly jealous when we spend time with the kitten... She has only hissed once at the kitten so far today which was better than yesterday. And she seems to growl at me more than she does the kitten!
Sorry for the long story. I hope this makes sense. Is this introduction going well or not? I can't tell... Please feel free to ask for any more information if needed and all advice is much appreciated.
Thank you in advance,
ai1995