any ideas to help ease their minds on being in house and loved

well my new kitty and the one ive had for years are getting along alot better however there is the occasional old kitty dont want messed with.. i also think old kitty is pregnant bout 3 weeks now, signs are starting to show but not for sure if shes eating more then i think and just getting lil fatter, i  have toys they play with and even give treats and wet can food and i just think im not doing all i could to make them more comfortable, they like to have window open and sit in it and just go nuts over birds squirrels whatever is moving lol, but getting too cold to be doing that any suggestions will be tried and are very appreciated, thanks

Sounds like you are doing everything well so far!
[article="33261"]The Five Golden Rules To Bringing An Outdoor Cat Inside  [/article]
and here's a good article to read 

Older females are known to be the 'Queen' of the household, so it is not uncommon for hissing and swatting of an annoying little one or a male to happen. Time is the only thing that brings about acceptance. Having your older one spayed would help, they get a little grouchy and wild with all those hormones going on. She could have up to three litters a year, and finding homes is not easy, Those big toms are not gentle with her either, many females get hurt during mating. She may be very protective of any kittens so you will have to monitor that closely. You don't want your new little one to get hurt.  Continue to feed them together so they feel good, and play with the younger one to tire them out so they aren't so annoying to the older one. It sounds good and will continue to get better with time, All the luck!

Ty both will def try working in getting them spayed n Tom cat outside too so he can be in warm house right now I let him in inside back k porch enclosed area that goes into basement cause too cold ou g at night. Ty for the article as well

tneil1029 said:

 
well my new kitty and the one ive had for years are getting along alot better however there is the occasional old kitty dont want messed with.. i also think old kitty is pregnant bout 3 weeks now, signs are starting to show but not for sure if shes eating more then i think and just getting lil fatter, i  have toys they play with and even give treats and wet can food and i just think im not doing all i could to make them more comfortable, they like to have window open and sit in it and just go nuts over birds squirrels whatever is moving lol, but getting too cold to be doing that any suggestions will be tried and are very appreciated, thanks

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If you wish the litter, so its swell.  but if you dont wish it, you know the surgery isnt that complicated, essentielly a normal spaying this early.  Later on it will be more difficult.

Do you have a net for the window?  so they cant fall out or try to jump out?

How old is your older girl?

Do you need help finding a low cost clinic in your area?