ı miss my cat

missedcatpuck

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First of all ı cant speak english that well sorry but my pain made me do this.

I have to give my cat to my friend because of my brothers's allergy.He went breathless 4 time because of his allergy... That's why ı gave my cat to my friend.

The problem is she is living 2 hours away from us.I can't see my cat that much.I miss my cat too much ı cant handle this pain.The problem is my cat is very happy there.I know

its a good thing but ı will take my cat back in summer.I dont want my cat to be sad.What should ı do ? He had 2 friends there.
 

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I'm so sorry you have to go through this, you will be blessed for taking on this pain instead of having your brother suffer. Maybe you can have your friend E-mail or call you more often with reports on how your little one is doing? It has to help knowing your cat seems to have adjusted to such a change, he will never forget you, the bond you have formed will stay. Unless your brother, or you, have a different living situation next summer, are you sure you want to cause pain and an upheaval in your cat's life again? I would first visit and see for myself how he is doing, a year is a long time. Then a decision will have to be made, your happiness or your cats. If your cat is indeed very happy, I would leave the situation as it is. Your friend must understand to be honest and tell you if your cat is truly happy, only someone there would really know. Be grateful for the time you did share, and if you can permanently take your cat back and give him the love and home he needs and wants, by all means do so, but only you can make that decision, I'll pray for you to do the right thing. My heart goes out to you. 
 
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I know how much it hurts to lose a kitty, I hope you find comfort that you found your kitty a safe home until you can get your kitty back. 
 
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