hi all! Been a while since I have posted here but I see it's still the same wonderful site!
I needed some advice on an uncomfortable and awkward situation... I recently adopted a kitten through a friend of a friend that is fostering sibling kittens for the county animal shelter. I bonded with one of the kittens almost immediately. She said that she had gotten attached to the little one but couldn't keep her because she didn't need another cat and how upsetting it would be for her other kitties to bring a new kitten into the family. The next day I pick the kitten up. She seemed sad to see her go but didn't seem too upset...not even any tears. I stayed home alone thanksgiving because I didn't want to leave her alone in a new place so soon. My paperwork with the shelter is done and I have officially adopted the kitten. She has messaged me via text and social media asking me multiple times to switch my kitten with another kitten she has and she regrets letting the kitten go...I haven't responded to any of the requests after the first one because to be honest I feel a little uncomfortable and awkward about her even asking that. I am attached to the kitten now, she is happy and settled in my house and my kitties are settled with her. Since I haven't responded to her additional requests to have the kitten back she is furious and has been messaging our mutual friend about how rude I am and how it is a slap in the face that I haven't responded. I responded the first initial time she asked if I would take another kitten instead AFTER I left with my kitten. I respectfully declined. I really didn't feel that she should keep contacting me after that. My intentions were not to be rude or mean but really didn't know how to handle a situation like that. I thought about messaging her and apologizing for her feeling that I was mean or rude but from what my friend told me she seemed rather hostile about it....even mentioned that she could have called the shelter and told them not to let me adopt (she didn't but still, the thought ran through her mind) [emoji]128563[/emoji][emoji]128563[/emoji]
Would I be better off messaging her and apologizing for her feelings being hurt or cease all contact [emoji]128514[/emoji]?
I needed some advice on an uncomfortable and awkward situation... I recently adopted a kitten through a friend of a friend that is fostering sibling kittens for the county animal shelter. I bonded with one of the kittens almost immediately. She said that she had gotten attached to the little one but couldn't keep her because she didn't need another cat and how upsetting it would be for her other kitties to bring a new kitten into the family. The next day I pick the kitten up. She seemed sad to see her go but didn't seem too upset...not even any tears. I stayed home alone thanksgiving because I didn't want to leave her alone in a new place so soon. My paperwork with the shelter is done and I have officially adopted the kitten. She has messaged me via text and social media asking me multiple times to switch my kitten with another kitten she has and she regrets letting the kitten go...I haven't responded to any of the requests after the first one because to be honest I feel a little uncomfortable and awkward about her even asking that. I am attached to the kitten now, she is happy and settled in my house and my kitties are settled with her. Since I haven't responded to her additional requests to have the kitten back she is furious and has been messaging our mutual friend about how rude I am and how it is a slap in the face that I haven't responded. I responded the first initial time she asked if I would take another kitten instead AFTER I left with my kitten. I respectfully declined. I really didn't feel that she should keep contacting me after that. My intentions were not to be rude or mean but really didn't know how to handle a situation like that. I thought about messaging her and apologizing for her feeling that I was mean or rude but from what my friend told me she seemed rather hostile about it....even mentioned that she could have called the shelter and told them not to let me adopt (she didn't but still, the thought ran through her mind) [emoji]128563[/emoji][emoji]128563[/emoji]
Would I be better off messaging her and apologizing for her feelings being hurt or cease all contact [emoji]128514[/emoji]?