It was November 23rd last year when I came home and found Sebastian who was very sick tangled in the mini blinds, and when I finally got him untangled he died in my arms. It was one of the most horrific things that ever happened to me in my life, not only with pets, but with anything. We were trying to nurse him back to health, but it was his time to go and he actually waited until I got home so I could hold him so he didn't die alone, and now looking back I think that was so very sweet of him, the bond was so very strong, I was always the one that took him to the vet, and over the last 3 weeks of his life we grew closer as I had to take him many times. It messed me up mentally for quite awhile, I even talked to my pastor and a friend who is a psychologist about it, and they both told me it would take about 1 year, maybe a bit longer, to get over it, and they were right; today is a year, and while I look back at it now it still of course bothers me, but I know he is just fine with all our other pets who have passed and are now playing and having fun at the Rainbow Bridge. And when I get feeling badly about it or anything really I just go pick up Sylvester whom we took in 9 months ago who looks like a 50/50 blend of Sebastian and Simon who passed May 2014, and I hold him and hug him and kiss his head, and it feels like I am holding all three at the same time.
The lesson here is to those who helped me on this site THANK YOU, thank you for caring and listening and understanding, and I now try to help others here who have lost cats and feel so low like they think they are going to die themselves, it DOES get better, hearts do heal but it takes time, and maybe they don't heal fully like they were before but like the saying goes "it is better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all".
We'll see you again some day "Sea bee", we love you forever and know that you are doing just fine....thanks for guiding me to Sylvester, he is doing well now too.
The lesson here is to those who helped me on this site THANK YOU, thank you for caring and listening and understanding, and I now try to help others here who have lost cats and feel so low like they think they are going to die themselves, it DOES get better, hearts do heal but it takes time, and maybe they don't heal fully like they were before but like the saying goes "it is better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all".
We'll see you again some day "Sea bee", we love you forever and know that you are doing just fine....thanks for guiding me to Sylvester, he is doing well now too.