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I stumbled upon this forum as i was looking for information and guides on how to help ease strays into a household, and from what i have seen/read i feel like i should ask my questions here(Big, long story time, i apologize.)
Me and my mother moved in with my stepdads mom a month ago to take care of her and i found out when we have a large number of stray cats. I got super excited because i love cats and where i lived before was in the middle of fields, not in the middle of a town. At first it was just one cat coming up because it was following my brother from down the road where they used to feed it, so i started putting food out. It never had a set time so i tried to make sure there was always a bit of food. We know it was let out when it was pretty small because my sister-in-law told me it was pretty small when she first started feeding it, i really doubt it is much older then a year. Eventually a few other cats would come around because of the buffet of cat food in the back yard.
Other strays i've had were raised from a kitten up, not full grown. One is a black and white one we call Oreo and the other is a black one we call Spook/Mr Kitty. I was reading a lot of the threads about bringing strays in and my experience seems to be a bit different, that's the main reason im posting.
Both cats are very affectionate with people, they will let us pick them up and move/hold them, and they tolerate each other. We have seen no fighting between them, they might not be cuddling up and sleeping together but they can be in the same areas and not care. We also have 2 dogs(one dog stays with stepdad most the time but comes up on weekends with him and the other is a maltipoo that stays in the house) Spook switches between running from the dogs and just jumping out of reach. Oreo on the other hand has no problem with the dogs and will play with them(the big dog keeps drooling on him).
I suspect Spook used to be someones pet because it is highly vocal with us and knows to sit at the door and meow. I also think he is a bit older then he looks. I KNOW that at the very least Oreo has been an outside, neighborhood cat for most of his life. These 2 just seem a bit special/different to me, compared to the numerous stray cats i have fed and watched over the years They don't run from most people and will always try and get into the house. Oreo has been getting faster with sneaking in and then he goes to the middle of the living room and flops. Spook will constantly intertwine with your legs and beg for attention.
I thought they were like this with everyone but over the past couple weeks we have heard from other people on our street that knows these cats, that they dine and dash. Oreo will always come and jump on my lap anytime i go outside and sit down, whether i call him or not. He will curl up and sleep on me and has even meowed at me some. Found out recently he doesn't do that with anyone else and so far i am the only one that he will allow to hold him for longer then a simple pick up and move thing. Spook has bonded with my grandmother who has Alzheimer and seems to actually be helping her. My mom keeps saying we have been adopted by these 2 cats, and we in turn want to fully adopt and bring them in.
I have no clue how to go about doing this. All the stuff i have read so far for bringing in strays seems to be only for ones that are skittish. We have let the cats in a few times with all the bedroom doors closed to see how they are and they just poke around, find the cat food in the kitchen, eat, play(Oreo), and beg for attention(Spook) Then we put them back outside because we have nothing prepared for extended inside times. I have a box outside with a fleece little blanket and towels for when it first started getting cold outside for Oreo and he sleeps there every night. Spook normally doesn't come here at night but that's changed recently, so we are getting another box for a bed.
I keep telling mom and grandma we cant let them in for long/full time until we get them to the vet and also that we need to get supplies first. So after all that background info here are my questions.-
--What all things do i need to get for these 2 adult cats to be let in?
--How do i deal/handle the litter box situation? Do i need a special kind to encourage its use or some kind of training thing? <--This is honestly my biggest concern(i have never brought in an adult stray cat so i will admit to completely ignorance of this)
--Any recommended items or supplies that wont bankrupt me?
--Any advice on toys for cats that don't seem to play around much? I really don't want him to be bored or sad.
I'm currently sick with the Flu so i am really hoping this post was ok. I should be able to answer any questions someone asks about what i was trying to say. Really hope i did this right. And an advanced thank you if anyone is willing to try and help talk me through this.
Here are what the little cuties look like. I don't have a great one of Spook yet.
Me and my mother moved in with my stepdads mom a month ago to take care of her and i found out when we have a large number of stray cats. I got super excited because i love cats and where i lived before was in the middle of fields, not in the middle of a town. At first it was just one cat coming up because it was following my brother from down the road where they used to feed it, so i started putting food out. It never had a set time so i tried to make sure there was always a bit of food. We know it was let out when it was pretty small because my sister-in-law told me it was pretty small when she first started feeding it, i really doubt it is much older then a year. Eventually a few other cats would come around because of the buffet of cat food in the back yard.
Other strays i've had were raised from a kitten up, not full grown. One is a black and white one we call Oreo and the other is a black one we call Spook/Mr Kitty. I was reading a lot of the threads about bringing strays in and my experience seems to be a bit different, that's the main reason im posting.
Both cats are very affectionate with people, they will let us pick them up and move/hold them, and they tolerate each other. We have seen no fighting between them, they might not be cuddling up and sleeping together but they can be in the same areas and not care. We also have 2 dogs(one dog stays with stepdad most the time but comes up on weekends with him and the other is a maltipoo that stays in the house) Spook switches between running from the dogs and just jumping out of reach. Oreo on the other hand has no problem with the dogs and will play with them(the big dog keeps drooling on him).
I suspect Spook used to be someones pet because it is highly vocal with us and knows to sit at the door and meow. I also think he is a bit older then he looks. I KNOW that at the very least Oreo has been an outside, neighborhood cat for most of his life. These 2 just seem a bit special/different to me, compared to the numerous stray cats i have fed and watched over the years They don't run from most people and will always try and get into the house. Oreo has been getting faster with sneaking in and then he goes to the middle of the living room and flops. Spook will constantly intertwine with your legs and beg for attention.
I thought they were like this with everyone but over the past couple weeks we have heard from other people on our street that knows these cats, that they dine and dash. Oreo will always come and jump on my lap anytime i go outside and sit down, whether i call him or not. He will curl up and sleep on me and has even meowed at me some. Found out recently he doesn't do that with anyone else and so far i am the only one that he will allow to hold him for longer then a simple pick up and move thing. Spook has bonded with my grandmother who has Alzheimer and seems to actually be helping her. My mom keeps saying we have been adopted by these 2 cats, and we in turn want to fully adopt and bring them in.
I have no clue how to go about doing this. All the stuff i have read so far for bringing in strays seems to be only for ones that are skittish. We have let the cats in a few times with all the bedroom doors closed to see how they are and they just poke around, find the cat food in the kitchen, eat, play(Oreo), and beg for attention(Spook) Then we put them back outside because we have nothing prepared for extended inside times. I have a box outside with a fleece little blanket and towels for when it first started getting cold outside for Oreo and he sleeps there every night. Spook normally doesn't come here at night but that's changed recently, so we are getting another box for a bed.
I keep telling mom and grandma we cant let them in for long/full time until we get them to the vet and also that we need to get supplies first. So after all that background info here are my questions.-
--What all things do i need to get for these 2 adult cats to be let in?
--How do i deal/handle the litter box situation? Do i need a special kind to encourage its use or some kind of training thing? <--This is honestly my biggest concern(i have never brought in an adult stray cat so i will admit to completely ignorance of this)
--Any recommended items or supplies that wont bankrupt me?
--Any advice on toys for cats that don't seem to play around much? I really don't want him to be bored or sad.
I'm currently sick with the Flu so i am really hoping this post was ok. I should be able to answer any questions someone asks about what i was trying to say. Really hope i did this right. And an advanced thank you if anyone is willing to try and help talk me through this.
Here are what the little cuties look like. I don't have a great one of Spook yet.