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Oh my days, that is the most awful story I have ever heard. Seriously that is terrifying and I don't know what I would do if that happened to me. I would honestly freak out, what an awful thing to happen and to walk into so suddenly. I am so sorry about that, I really am. That poor baby, I wonder what was going on with him. I hope your heart is healing and I hope you are finding some sort of peace. I hope he is up there with Athena and every other cat who has passed and I hope they're happy and purring and in a big kitten pile all snuggly and warm. I really do not like this part of life, where you have to say good bye and you can't do anything about it but accept it. It kills me in every way. Every time I go into the basement and I don't see her in her favourite big, brown chair, where all her fur is all over the blanket covering it, I just die inside. I always wanna say hi to her, even though she isn't there. I just wish I had a sign to know she is okay.I am just seeing this now, and am so sorry for your loss of your beautiful little girl. It reminds me of Skipper, who back in July just started crying one day, we took him to the vet that night, they checked and couldn't find anything wrong, gave him some antibiotic shot thinking maybe it was an URI, the next morning he was still crying, we thought it would just take time for the meds to kick in, and when we came home that night he was laying dead on the dining room floor. We don't know what happened, why these things happen, the vet was stunned, and so are we, still, months later. Just like people, sometimes something sudden and catastrophic happens and they pass quickly, and we certainly understand how you feel, you think you will die yourself the pain is so bad and overwhelming, but after you "survive" the initial wave of grief your heart starts to mend, albeit very slowly. It takes a long, long time to recover, but we do, and the family of cat lovers here certainly feel for you and can help you out, we all have countless stories of sadness to tell, and understand what it feels like to lose such a precious member of your family.
So sorry this happened, unfortunately these bad things do happen, we have to endure and survive them....send lots of lovin' to your other feline friends as they are grieving too.
God Bless, may your heart soon start to heal......