Help with Meowing

mozziepaws

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I know there are so many threads out there with so much advice, but I've read it all and I finally just need to post my own and hear some quality advice for my cat.

I love my new rescue cat of 3 1/2 weeks, a 3 year old who was found as a stray. He's exceedingly loving, a 13 lbs big boned boy who I got for his Maine Coon roots (with the personality to boot). And like many Maine Coons, he loves being in the same room as you and what I knew would come with the breed, he's very vocal.

I grew up with cats and understand them, but my roommate (who got a kitten at the same time) is frustrated with him. It's exasperating trying to figure out how to train him best to not meow every time we're up and walking around. I HAVE trained him to sit on command, and as of this weekend he will sit QUIETLY on command and wait for the food in my hand. He's there, I got him that far from directions on forums and maybe I just need to wait and keep doing it, but once you start walking around the apartment he's underfoot and meowing again. He's not receiving attention when he's meowing, and when he's quiet I love to love him (I mean that's why I got him! He's soooo lovable). All advice has said it'd take a couple days, a week at the most, to curve meowing.

I understand he'll meow around feeding times, and he does, but it's the in between that doesn't make sense. He's NOT given treats unless I'm teaching him good behavior through it. He's had some recent accidents, finding out that the garbage has food and knocked over our lidded large trash bin and has ripped open two sacks of trash. Mozzie is OBSESSED with food, and being fed twice a day and getting into the garbage (a resolved issue in itself) he's not hungry, just obsessive. He'll even be meowing again after eating, which is always a session of me having him sit and eat slowly as rewarded for being quiet. 

Things I've done: taught him to sit, taught him to sit quietly for food, bought (and waiting in the mail) a feeder station that will slow down his eating and make him work for his food.

Would it help to buy him the ball that you put food into, so he can push it around and be distracted by it? I don't know if that will fix anything, like putting a bandaid over a festering wound. I want curve this behavior and not make poor choices (and spend money) that I don't need to. 

Thank you for your help!! It's just that I've taught him to sit and be quiet while eating, it's all the other times of the day that he's meowing! 
 

betsygee

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Welcome to TCS.  I'm sorry you didn't get any responses to your questions.  Does your kitty have plenty of toys to play with--maybe he's bored.

How did it go with the treat ball--did you try it?  
 

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A very belated but still warm welcome to TCS!  I'm not sure how your post fell through the cracks but I'm glad @betsygee  found it so more people can see it.  It sounds to me like you're doing everything right with your new boy (who sounds like a total love bug.)   You mentioned that you had a feeder station coming - has that helped any?

 I have this one and my two have a lot of fun with it.  If the one you got doesn't help, I'd highly recommend this one.  

 

One word of caution:  I'm not sure you will ever get Mozzie to be as quiet as your roommate wants. Some cats are just more vocal than others.  It can be a source of entertainment, or even a way to bring you closer to your cat.  Some cats will actually almost carry on conversations with you with their vocalization.  

Is that Mozzie in your avatar?  He's gorgeous!

Please let us know how things are going.  
 

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some cats are talkative.  our cat is turning 18 in a few days, and my husband got him when he was a few months old.  he meows a lot because he's just that way.  i work at home, and some days, he meows till i think i'll go mad!  he sometimes wakes me up meowing.  he also talks to us - if you say something to him, he'll respond.  you can have entire conversations with him.  and of course, if he wants something, he'll meow.  sometimes he doesn't seem to want food, fresh water, petting or anything - he just wants to meow.
 
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