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OK I have an appointment on Thursday to have my 8 year old cat neutered. I hadn't had it done before now because he was the only cat in the house.
Not any more!
But here's the thing: for some reason I'm beside myself with fear. I don't want to put him through this. I'm so scared it will make him hate me for life.
He's already very independent and I think he's upset with me because my husband adopted a kitten.
Is neutering going to change him and make him even more standoffish and aloof?
I don't know if I can make myself do this to him. Knowing me, I'll panic and cancel the appointment. I have no idea what to expect because this is the first time in 30 years I've had a male cat.
This is scaring the crap out of me.
Not any more!
But here's the thing: for some reason I'm beside myself with fear. I don't want to put him through this. I'm so scared it will make him hate me for life.
He's already very independent and I think he's upset with me because my husband adopted a kitten.
Is neutering going to change him and make him even more standoffish and aloof?
I don't know if I can make myself do this to him. Knowing me, I'll panic and cancel the appointment. I have no idea what to expect because this is the first time in 30 years I've had a male cat.
This is scaring the crap out of me.