My baby girl shyla, a tabby who i have had for 8 years hates me and i have no idea why or what to do about it. I think it started when she became fully grown which was years ago, but she wont come in my room,wont let me pet her, growls at me when i talk to her,she wont rub on me yet she rubs on my siblings, the only reaction i get from her if any at all is hissing and growling. Long ago she did all this but also sleep in the bed with me and now she wont even to that, she even used to bring me gifts which was a pain but made me happy. Recently we got another cat who has been with us for 1 year now who is very sweet, she hates him. I tryed ignoring him in front of her to show her shes my number one but she dosint care. I tryed playing with her, feeding her firt,still trying to pet and talk to her but nothings changed. I at first i thought she was going through a phase but now im positive its not, im about to give up one her, the relationship is clearly one sided. Is there anything i can do or is it over. Please dont give me false hope, if theres really nothing i can do just tell me. Sorry i typed so much.