We have 2 male cats, one which rarely explores the house. Recently, he has been coming out though (yay!). Well, he is having some issues. I am watching the 2 males interact, and I can't tell if is aggression, or play. The male who doesn't leave his room (let's call him Red), slapped the other males back-end while he was walking by. I am unsure if claws were out, but I don't think they were. The other male (let's call him Blue) is a very playful cat. He often plays with our female. Red was an outdoor cat for a long time, but has not been outside in 4-5 years. Blue has never been outside. Red is about 10 years old, Blue is 3 or 4. Both of them are neutered. How can I tell what is play, and what is aggression? Also, if it is play, how can I encourage the behavior?