Like many people out there, we have a multi-cat household.
We bought 2 cats at the same time and brought them home from the humane society at the same time. There was no territory to defend as both came home at the same time.
My girlfriend picked Cupid and I picked Charm. Charm is 8 months old and Cupid is 7 months old.
Based on Cupid's behaviour, we pretty much feel that he is the dominant cat, but sometimes he goes too far.
I know that we are not supposed to interveen when it comes to which one is the dominant cat, but I feel bad for Charm, and she looks quite unhappy.
Sometimes they play together or sleep next to each other, but whenever Charm has a toy, Cupid comes by and steals it from her. Whenever she is being pet he will come and wedge himself between her and I. When she eats, she looks up every few bites to see if he is coming. IF she finds a quiet spot to sleep, he'll go and bug her until she leaves and then he sleeps there. Cupid also walks by sometimes and without provocation will just smack her.
Now granted my emotional strings may be pulled a bit her, as I picked Charm and she's my baby.
But I also know that when Cupid went to get neuteured, she was sooo much happier. She was affectionate, she slept with up, she had energy. To me, it's like that's the real her, the cat she wants to be, but Cupid won't let her.
In fact, it's almost like Cupid getting neutered made things worst. Since he got neuteured, he's been climbing up on the table, counters, and has been more of a bully with her since the operation.
She was also fixed about a month back (vet couldn't do them both on the same day because she was on meds).
I know not to interveen in domanance issues, and I don't want to have to seperate them because often they behave, but I also want Charm to be happy.
Any advice?
We bought 2 cats at the same time and brought them home from the humane society at the same time. There was no territory to defend as both came home at the same time.
My girlfriend picked Cupid and I picked Charm. Charm is 8 months old and Cupid is 7 months old.
Based on Cupid's behaviour, we pretty much feel that he is the dominant cat, but sometimes he goes too far.
I know that we are not supposed to interveen when it comes to which one is the dominant cat, but I feel bad for Charm, and she looks quite unhappy.
Sometimes they play together or sleep next to each other, but whenever Charm has a toy, Cupid comes by and steals it from her. Whenever she is being pet he will come and wedge himself between her and I. When she eats, she looks up every few bites to see if he is coming. IF she finds a quiet spot to sleep, he'll go and bug her until she leaves and then he sleeps there. Cupid also walks by sometimes and without provocation will just smack her.
Now granted my emotional strings may be pulled a bit her, as I picked Charm and she's my baby.
But I also know that when Cupid went to get neuteured, she was sooo much happier. She was affectionate, she slept with up, she had energy. To me, it's like that's the real her, the cat she wants to be, but Cupid won't let her.
In fact, it's almost like Cupid getting neutered made things worst. Since he got neuteured, he's been climbing up on the table, counters, and has been more of a bully with her since the operation.
She was also fixed about a month back (vet couldn't do them both on the same day because she was on meds).
I know not to interveen in domanance issues, and I don't want to have to seperate them because often they behave, but I also want Charm to be happy.
Any advice?