Hi. I feel truly awful writing this, but I don't know what to do.
A few days ago I took in a stray kitten that was found behind a dumpster. Bought him all his stuff, treated him for fleas, and he's going to the vet tomorrow. He's as sweet as can be, loves to cuddle, and I enjoy his company.
However, lately I've really been having second thoughts as to whether I should keep him. I'm a college student, and while I can afford to care for him, there's not much money to go around. I also don't have an abundance of time to spend with him. I have severe depression and anxiety and I thought a cat would make this better, but it's only getting worse. Maybe it's because I've been nonstop worrying about finances and commitment and having to find apartments once I graduate. Sometimes I wonder if I should take him to a shelter.
But I'd feel absolutely awful doing that to him. The thought of him being sad and locked up in a cage when he trusted be taking him in breaks my heart. I really like him, but I'm so worried about finances and finding time to spend with him that I don't know what to do. If anyone has words of advice to give, I'd love to hear them. I just want what's best for both him and me.
A few days ago I took in a stray kitten that was found behind a dumpster. Bought him all his stuff, treated him for fleas, and he's going to the vet tomorrow. He's as sweet as can be, loves to cuddle, and I enjoy his company.
However, lately I've really been having second thoughts as to whether I should keep him. I'm a college student, and while I can afford to care for him, there's not much money to go around. I also don't have an abundance of time to spend with him. I have severe depression and anxiety and I thought a cat would make this better, but it's only getting worse. Maybe it's because I've been nonstop worrying about finances and commitment and having to find apartments once I graduate. Sometimes I wonder if I should take him to a shelter.
But I'd feel absolutely awful doing that to him. The thought of him being sad and locked up in a cage when he trusted be taking him in breaks my heart. I really like him, but I'm so worried about finances and finding time to spend with him that I don't know what to do. If anyone has words of advice to give, I'd love to hear them. I just want what's best for both him and me.
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