Seeking advice: what to do with a kitten that the humane society has refused?

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Hello there!

This is a bit of a strange situation and a long post, so I guess I'll just jump right into it.

Last week, I discovered a nursing mother cat with five kittens; Mom was very friendly, but felt pretty emaciated when I pet her, and the whole family looked rather dirty with lots of eye discharge. The people in the neighborhood informed me that animal control was contacted, but they just would not come out for cats, and the cats do not belong to anyone. So yesterday, I picked them up and brought them to the Connecticut Humane Society.

They accepted the mother and four of the five kittens, who are about five weeks old. But the last kitten they could not accept, because he has a bite wound of (relatively) unknown origin. Neighbors reported that a skunk tried to take the kitten, but someone killed the skunk (I didn't speak the language so I could not understand everything they were saying and my account may be inaccurate, but there definitely seemed to be a skunk conflict). Because we do not know whether the skunk had rabies, this kitten is considered a rabies risk.

The humane society advised me that I had to call animal control, and animal control might insist that it be euthanized right away, but if they did not tell me to euthanize it immediately, I could try taking the kitten home and looking for another shelter where the kitten could be housed for a long enough time to effectively quarantine it.

When I asked whether they thought the kitten had a realistic chance of being allowed to survive, they were somewhat evasive; I explained that I did not want to put it through the ordeal of being kept in limbo for so long if it was only going to have to be euthanized. They pushed me toward taking it home and seemed to think someone else would be able to handle it.

I did call animal control. They told me that they do not keep cats, only dogs, and they would euthanize him if I brought him in, but offered that if I was careful, I could "quarantine" him at home by keeping him in relative isolation.

Unfortunately, I cannot just take in a kitten. I already have a cat, and not only would it be psychologically disruptive to her, but I would be afraid of her contracting parasites or some other illness. I plan to call the veterinarian to see if they will help clean him up, but am not confident that they will even handle an animal with a bite wound. Additionally, what we have is a one-bedroom apartment - it is really not enough space for my current cat and a total newcomer.

I have been cautious in handling the kitten. I do not touch inside the carrier without gloves, and wear extra-thick gloves if I need to pick him up myself. So far, the kitten has cried and has tried to get out, but has never attempted to bite or scratch. It has a small bowl of litter and a small animal water bottle. I am feeding Science Diet because that was the brand the humane society sent me home with. For about 36 hours now, the kitten has been living in a carrier in my car, because I have nowhere else for him. I check on him often and fortunately the weather is extremely mild for now, but this is obviously an unsustainable situation.

It seems like an absolute shame to euthanize this kitten without letting him go through a period of quarantine, but at the same time, I am not equipped to provide him with what he needs. I don't even know if keeping a small baby alone for that long would damage him irreversibly anyway; it's a crucial time for kitty social development. There are so many issues around it that I'm completely overwhelmed. I don't want to give up on this little baby, don't want to punish him for being in an already-traumatic situation that resulted in his injury, and I feel horrible listening to him cry and knowing that he's sleeping alone for the first time before he's ready...but I don't want to project too many of my own hangups onto him, either.

Obviously, I'm writing to ask if anyone has advice or has had a similar experience. I'm looking for additional help for the kitten but I don't know when it will come, if at all - shelters are all overwhelmed. I don't know how to make this decision alone. I'm willing to accept that sometimes, cats have to be put to sleep, and "life at all costs" isn't the kindest philosophy. But the fact that we just don't know whether there's any rabies going on makes it seem far less clear-cut. It seems like putting down an innocent kitten just because the loser who happened to find him is low on resources. Is it realistic to think that there are shelters that exist that would take him? If not, is there a way I can safely keep him at home? If I keep him away from carpets and soft surfaces, how likely are fleas to jump from the carrier to the rest of the apartment? What about the issues with socialization?

Anyway, if you have thoughts about any of the above, let me know. Thank you so much for your time in reading this.
 

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I feel so bad for this little kitten.  It wasn't his fault he got bitten so now, based on the word of people who may not have seen everything accurately, he has to be separated from his mom and siblings.  That breaks my heart!  I don't know where you live but here in the US it's 11pm and there may not be many US people on here now.  Where do you live?  There will surely be those who live in the far east who will see this and respond to you with suggestions to help.  How old is the kitten?  If he's younger than 4 weeks, he will need a source of warmth.  Since it's summer (unless it's winter where you are) then heat may not be needed.  Can you at least get him a fuzzy bear to snuggle up to?  And may be a softly ticking clock or a radio with soft music to help him be less lonely?  Are there any rescues in your area?  You may have to travel to take him to the nearest rescue.  
 

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OMG, what a dilemma
.  How long is the quarantine period?  Do you even k now WHEN he was bitten?  Does anyone know whether any of the skunks in your area are rabid?   Did anyone tell you what signs to look for if he IS infected?  Good grief..what a predicament. 

Do you have any friend who could take him in and at least keep him in a bathroom under quarantine, or how about a Vet's office?  They would know best what to look for, and he would be out of the car at least.  If they would just keep him until he tests negative, then maybe the humane society would take him?
 
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Hello again! Thank you both for your careful consideration. There is news...

...He's safe and sound at The Simon Foundation in Connecticut! At the same time I made this post, I was emailing a ton of no-kill shelters for help. A number of people responded including a few who were able to take him in for the appropriate amount of time, but The Simon Foundation was the one I could arrange meeting with the earliest.

So, while we have yet to see whether he is sick, for the time being he is safe and out of my car!
 

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Aww, well good.  I'm glad.  Hope things go well for the little kitty.  I feel so bad for him having to be separated from his family.  Bless him.  
 

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What wonderful news that someone (group) took him in
  I"m sure you are relieved beyond words
 

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Hello again! Thank you both for your careful consideration. There is news...

...He's safe and sound at The Simon Foundation in Connecticut! At the same time I made this post, I was emailing a ton of no-kill shelters for help. A number of people responded including a few who were able to take him in for the appropriate amount of time, but The Simon Foundation was the one I could arrange meeting with the earliest.

So, while we have yet to see whether he is sick, for the time being he is safe and out of my car!
Wow, I live in CT and always thought the Simon Foundation was only for dogs. Are you absolutely certain the Humane Society is no-kill?
 

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Wow, I live in CT and always thought the Simon Foundation was only for dogs. Are you absolutely certain the Humane Society is no-kill?
Omg, I hope the little kitty is safe there :(
 
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The CT Humane Society is a supposedly "limited euthanasia" shelter which publishes its criteria for euthanasia as well as its adoption/outcome statistics for all to see, but it's not no-kill. At the time I was first considering it for this mom and her kittens, it seemed that CHS would be OK - while the cats clearly needed some care to become healthy, they didn't seem to have serious physical problems requiring interventions more intense than, say, some antibiotics and parasite treatments. They were sociable. I was mostly eager to get them off the streets of Hartford, where I see too many squished cats. I had no clue that there was going to be a wound like the one on that poor kitten's backside, and I'm completely ashamed to realize that rabies considerations didn't even occur to me. I also knew that CHS does the initial intake appointment partly so they can decide whether they will even care for the animal - as far as I knew, if they thought the cats were likely to be too ill or otherwise need care outside the scope of what CHS could provide, they would tell me and give me the option to bring them back to their neighborhood (until I found another rescue, that is).

And, in a way, that's what they did - I had just assumed that they'd take all or none, and really, it was just the one kitten they couldn't take. And I couldn't bring him back to his neighborhood alone.

Now that I keep going over and over it, I really hope the rest of the family is okay. Before bringing them, it seemed like they'd be just fine with CHS; now all the uglier possibilities are playing in my head. I'm a little afraid to call about anyone now (either the family or the one little kitten), in case there's bad news. But I suspect the curiosity will win eventually. I want to know how it goes for them. If there's any news, I will post in this thread.

Thank you for your well-wishes.

In case anyone was curious, CHS decided to name the mother cat "Lucy," since that's what one of the neighborhood residents liked to call her, and they gave the kittens I Love Lucy-themed names: Ricky Jr., Ethel, Fred, and Vivian (after Ethel's actress - they said they couldn't name a kitten "Mrs. McGillicuddy." I strongly disagree, but as long as they're okay...). Meanwhile, when I brought the little black kitten to The Simon Foundation, they asked me for a name, so I went with Adrien (for the alter-ego of a cat-themed Nickelodeon superhero, Chat Noir).
 
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