I'm worried that my kitty is too attached to me. He has always been really affectionate, but he turned into being a really clingy cat. Not that I mind - I love it! But I'm not going to be around as much eventually b/c I'm getting a job. Right now I am home during the day, and only gone for no more than a few hours at a time.
When I'm in the same room with him, he will sleep on me or right next to me and when I am out of the room for a while (I shut the door to "his" room when I'm not home) he'll bury himself under his blankets to sleep. He wants to be near me every second of the day. He stays in the room I'm in unless he's sleeping already - and even then sometimes he'll wake up, find me, and go to sleep next to me. He follows me around when he's awake. He rarely leaves the room I'm in unless I do, except to eat and that's only when I walk him to the kitchen.
I just don't know what I'm going to do. I'm worried he's going to be sad or it'll hurt his feelings when I have to leave him alone for longer during the day. Do you think he'll be okay? Or should I start getting him used to it - like leaving him in his room for longer, even when I'm home - or should I just let him stay this attached and clingy?
It's probably my fault b/c I held him almost 24/7 when I first brought him home, and so he loves to be held and carried around. Did I spoil him too much? I didn't think that was possible!
I don't think it's nerves or anxiety b/c he's not jittery at all and he loves meeting new people. He's used to this house and nothing really scares him.
When I'm in the same room with him, he will sleep on me or right next to me and when I am out of the room for a while (I shut the door to "his" room when I'm not home) he'll bury himself under his blankets to sleep. He wants to be near me every second of the day. He stays in the room I'm in unless he's sleeping already - and even then sometimes he'll wake up, find me, and go to sleep next to me. He follows me around when he's awake. He rarely leaves the room I'm in unless I do, except to eat and that's only when I walk him to the kitchen.
I just don't know what I'm going to do. I'm worried he's going to be sad or it'll hurt his feelings when I have to leave him alone for longer during the day. Do you think he'll be okay? Or should I start getting him used to it - like leaving him in his room for longer, even when I'm home - or should I just let him stay this attached and clingy?
It's probably my fault b/c I held him almost 24/7 when I first brought him home, and so he loves to be held and carried around. Did I spoil him too much? I didn't think that was possible!
I don't think it's nerves or anxiety b/c he's not jittery at all and he loves meeting new people. He's used to this house and nothing really scares him.