My Daisy Mae

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Well I typed up a long post and cried and cried during it. And it had an error message and I lost the post. Starting over and trying to make it shorter.

Daisy Mae was 3 weeks and 1/2 a lb when she arrived at my home. She had been outside a couple days, abandoned by mama and left alone in a neighborhood in a yard by a busy street. We were told about her by my BIL and we said to bring her to us and we would see what we could do.
She was a mess. She was extremely dehydrated, starving, her left eye wouldn't close so it was dried and goopy and shriveled. She couldn't lift her head or walk. We thought we would lose her the first night. She got a little more active after water and kitten formula. Man that first week I was at stores nightly buying supplies for her. She saw the vet and we found out her weight and that she had head trauma which caused her to be unable to walk much. Also that we could start trying kitten food so we got Royal canin baby cat wet food. She started eating, and growing. She started walking more and was growing out of being wobbly and falling
Her eye started healing, she taught herself the litter box, she ate and drank well...she was immediately attached to us. We absolutely adored her. I did updates weekly on my Facebook for friends to read about her. My husband had started to take her to work the first day we had her bc she was so sick and his coworkers fell in love with her. They would share time with her daily, make her beds of blankets in baskets, buy her treats. We set up my husbands office with a kennel and bed for her, litter box and play space. Everyone who met her loved her. She was so sweet and loving.
My absolute favorite was that she knew that if I yelled "treats" it meant wet food. She would run her hoppy little run into the kitchen for food. It was adorable and we would stop to watch her do it every time.

She was always tiny...she grew but not much. At 12 weeks old She appeared to only be 6/7. She was only 1.5lb. . We had known that might cause issues down the line.
A week ago today she started getting lethargic that night and didn't eat. We watched her a couple hours and it got worse so we went to the emergency vet at 1am

She had a seizure after arrival and they said it was due to low glucose. We worked to find a cause but couldn't. They admitted her to the ICU to try to stabilize her levels. By Saturday they hadn't been able to and couldn't find a cause. They basically said she wouldn't survive this. We asked for one more day on the glucose drip and they agreed. Sunday we go in and her levels are good and she is off the drip. We are thrilled. Sunday evening they call and she is back to awful low numbers. They can't redo the original drip bc it could damage where it was placed. She is fading. They did another smaller amount of the dextrose drip and it helped a little. But not enough, there is nothing else they could do for her.

We were devastated. We had originally said if she needed euthanized we would bring her home to do it surrounded by familiarity. But it was Sunday night of a holiday weekend and we couldn't find anyone.
We spent a couple hours with her before, and she went peacefully laying on my lap as I petted her. My sweet Daisy Mae only made it to 12 weeks old. We wouldn't change those 9 weeks with her for anything, and are so happy for the time we had. It's been a crushing blow losing her. She had many fans...people who never met her loved her. The vets loved her and even one of the students had tears in her eyes as she told me how sorry she was and how much she loved caring for her and how everyone there just adored her and was pulling for her.

My sweet girl is free of pain and I hope she always knows that we did our best for her and I hope she was happy for the short time she had on this earth.
 

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I am very sorry for your loss of Daisy Mae. She has taken a piece of your heart and your love with her.  The love you gave her will help light her path to the rainbow bridge.  Please know you did everything you could for your baby.  I wish words could take away your pain but only time can do that.  Please know that you are not alone here with your grief.  You wonderful tribute really shows your love for Daisy Mae.  Your baby may be gone from this earth but she will not be forgotten.  She will live on through the memories of the special times you shared together.  Your love for your baby is a bond that can never be broken and will always remain in a special place in your heart.  Run free at the the rainbow bridge Daisy Mae.  Hugs to you during this difficult time.

 
 
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I'm so sorry for your loss of your sweet Daisy Mae. What a darling little peanut. She knew only love during her all too short time here on this earth. She left for her journey over the Rainbow Bridge in the safety of your loving arms. She knew only love. You gave her that amazing gift.
Daisy Mae is at rest and free from the chains of her suffering. She only feels the unending love you gave her. Take comfort in your memories and photos of her.

[emoji]128149[/emoji]RIP little Daisy Mae[emoji]128149[/emoji]
 

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I cried when I read your post, the pain of losing that precious girl can be felt through your beautiful tribute to that sweet little baby. You gave her 9 weeks of love and care, without you she would have never had twelve weeks of life. You let her know that the world can be full of love and fun, not all pain and coldness. Even with the best of care she had to go, I'll never understand why the so loved are taken, but it breaks my heart more to think of the countless who die alone and unloved. Thank God she was not among them.
There is no way to prepare for a broken heart, and even though you knew she was so frail, it is still such a blow to lose her after 9 weeks of bonding and enjoying her in your life. Know that she will share that bond with you for the rest of your life. She literally owed her life to you and will love you for it for eternity. Celebrate knowing her and that you got to share those 9 weeks, it was meant to be, I wish it could have turned out different. But we cannot change the past, she would never want for you to be so sad because of her. She loved you too much for that. She only wants the best for you and for you to accept the legacy of love she leaves behind for you,and perhaps one day passing it on to another who so desperately needs it, in this way she lives on forever.
My heart goes out to you, it is impossible to heal a broken heart with words, but I hope by sharing your grief with those who understand you will find comfort and begin that path to healing along your life's journey. Daisy Mae and you have come to that fork in the road on this journey, but know they will run parallel until you meet again. Use that bond to send each other the comfort and love you both need.
I'll pray for you both, your pain is my pain, I'll cry with you for the loss of such a precious, sweet girl....... RIP dear Daisy Mae, the world is a darker place for your leaving, but your star will light up the night sky and send forth your sweet love to the one who misses you so very much. Goodnight sweet princess!
 

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Bless you for trying to save this little soul. Poor little thing was dealt such an awful hand. At the end she was with someone she loved and knew she was loved. RIP beautiful girl
 

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I am crying, too.  Bless you.  You did so much for Daisy Mae.  I am sorry for the loss of your sweet baby girl.
 

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So very sorry on your loss of this adorable little one. Heaven must have needed a little angel, maybe for a child in Heaven to play with. Thank you for caring so much and taking care of her, hopefully when the time is right, you can do the same for another who needs help.

God Bless.....
 

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This hits really close, your cat looks very similar to mine who passed yesterday. Reading your post brought tears to my eyes. I'm really sorry for your loss she was very pretty. Stay strong!

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It's incredibly difficult to deal with the loss of such a little one that you've poured so much love and care into. My condolences. :rbheart:
 

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I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby girl.  No doubt she's a little angel now roaming free with out a care.  She is lucky to have found you and to have had the warmth of your arms and the love of your heart.  I'm sure the short time you had together made the world of difference to her.  She got to know what it was like to love and be loved before she had to leave this world, and that's because of you.

Roam free sweet girl


Warmest regards, Hope
 
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